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Originally Posted by Teal
Would it all add up there on her end?
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I believe so, at the same time, I also think a Matriarch is familar enough w/each one of their children & extended family members to know what they are capable of ...
She was around during each person's formative years to identify good, bad & highly questionable behaviors in each one ...
Traumatic events are just what they are: tramatizing & paralyzing ...
Children do not have the coping skills to handle a horrific event w/out guidance nor do most adults ...
I'm sure she sensed something was wrong when you last tried to explain your reason(s) for not attending; it probably did not add up ...
Personally, I also sound tired & exasperated when I sense or am I told about something bad that has befallen my loved ones ...
Fortunately your Grandmother is w/you, she can hear your thoughts & prayers ...
Just talk to her ...