My x lover died, he was a law breaker, now is guiding me?

[MissCreativeSpirit]

I am not that shocked to hear from him so soon after his departure. He had drug and alcohol issues for which I kept breaking up with him over. He not fully acting like a guide yet. But I think once I understand him more in communication as z medium, he will end up being there for me for the rest of my life.

Have others had complex prior on Earth relationships with characters/spirits that eventually became guides like this from the other side after issues were ironed out?

[Brieflampscissorsalien]

Yes, one of my spirit guides was once living on Earth and did something terrible and then went on to end their own life here. I believe in soul contracts, good and bad. No matter the life lived on Earth, once passed you can become a spirit guide from what I know.

[Lynn]

Hello

I am not sure on "guide" as in that higher spiritual realm being but maybe someone from the same Soul Family you are a part of. In this your contended to the other on that soul level where you share in past lives and other relationships.

You also shared a relationship with this person that had its ups and downs to it but too came with lessons I am sure of great personal growth for you on your journey in this life.

He might stay around you watching over at times but too he has his role to move onto to clear some of the karmic debts his life built up so its important not to "hold onto him" so that he gets trapped on Earth.

Lynn