oh a and n how I feel for you...
What can I say, I know how you feel and going through worse...
My sc married less than two years ago, and I had to see his pictures with her,
I had a reunion exactly two years ago yesterday where not inly did I have to meet her ( had never met his gf then) and they announced the same day their wedding...
my marriage had broke down before this and this year my ex meets someone! And he wasn't the way he is now with her like he was with me...he was a jerk with me...he was abusive with me...
I ended up ill constantly the whole time we were married..from the psychological abuse...
And now ,I'm alone with a child and both of them got paired off with life partners and living the dream.....
I've been feeling exactly like you mentioned....the loser .....everyone is being blessed by life and I'm cursed...
It's tested my faith and pushed my soul to its limits...
And I don't have your age where I can at least look far ahead a hope ...
You are young , and have your whoooooole life ahead of you.
You will overcome this and maybe like the others said its for you to learn and see what you need for yourself, a mirroring....
And I know you can't feel it now, but if you are going through this now early on, and you are transformed from this experience ...
You will recover and you will move on ..more confident and with a lot more self love and respect ....
And you will only allow yourself to be attracted to someone who will genuinely love you, and respect you and you you everything this person never did...
I've seen a quote flying about a lot in fb that says" one day you will meet someone who will make you understand why it never worked with anyone else"
I love it when that pops up, to remind me that no one, not even the deepest sc I ever felt really stepped up....only about themselves they though about not me.
And it was my fault. Because I allowed it.
Becuase I didn't love myself enough ....and respect my own self...
If we don't love and respect. Our own selves how will anyone else.
We allow them to do what do....
I agree with the previous posts , stay far away from fb .
After my sc got married he posted the wedding pics, I can't even explain what I felt when I saw them.
I sent him my wishes and right after I unfollowed him so his pics didn't show up on my feed anymore...
Best thing I ever did and don't go back to look ...
I won't let myself , I see how it hurts me so deeply.
Treat yourself like you would your best friend going through sth like this.
Wouldn't you stop her from hurting herself by looking at pics like that???
Love yourself , let time heal and know life does not end here...you got a whole lotta living to do still missy
Even in my position...which is farther down the road and with a child ...I still haven't lost hope...
So you shouldn't too!
I hope you find your peace soon and get back to life again