Just Missing You Today.......

[annonafox]

Maybe it is the turn of the season reminding me of the day you left this world......

I miss you so much. I've been dreaming a lot about you lately........

I have the little heart-shaped blue pillow you bought at Goodwill. There is no one like you, dear Matt. I know people say not to hold on to the past and keep wishing for things to change that cannot be changed, but sometimes I can't help it..........I still wish so much this never happened.......and that you were still here.

I wuv oo

[Tiss]

Dear annonafox,

I understand you pretty well, I am going through the same process.

About the nostalgia that you feel, I know it very well. Time ago, a very dear friend of mine wrote this for me. Perhaps it could be of any help to you, as it was to me:

"This is natural that you, as you learn about yourself and who you are, yearn to share this with someone dear, that being your beloved. Since this is the case, you should do exactly that. This can be done by expressing who you are becoming, how you feel and what you aspire for yourself in a manner which is creative and imaginative. Let this be works of writing, of art, of music, of dance or perhaps of teaching. In the process of doing so find a way to incorporate the memory and values you hold dear for this loved one in whatever creative form you choose. Not only will this creativity be a two-way form of communication with your loved one, but it will transmute the energy of loss and grief into a healing activity. You will also fulfil more of your yearning to share who you are in a practical way."


I would add: Think that Matt has not gone, he cannot share your present life as you used to be, but he is always there with you. When the right time arrives he will be waiting for you, as my beloved will be waiting for me.

Also think that you have been blessed with the opportunity of living a true and unconditional love, and it happens to so few people around you. Use your dreams to be in contact with him, with the help of your guides. go to bed thinking of him and asking him to present you while you are dreaming. It does not matter if you remember details or not, but the magic sense of peace when you wake up will speak itself of his protection.

Go ahead dear annonafox, day after day, living your present, not your past, not your future.

Receive a big hug of love and light,

TISS

[Silver]

What an exceptional post, Tiss.

[annonafox]

Lovely and so healing~~ Many blessings for your compassion~~~ Thank you from my heart to yours~~~~~

Originally Posted by annonafox

Maybe it is the turn of the season reminding me of the day you left this world......

I miss you so much. I've been dreaming a lot about you lately........

I have the little heart-shaped blue pillow you bought at Goodwill. There is no one like you, dear Matt. I know people say not to hold on to the past and keep wishing for things to change that cannot be changed, but sometimes I can't help it..........I still wish so much this never happened.......and that you were still here.

I wuv oo

Dearest Annonafox..

"People" say MANY things... what is important at this juncture is what YOU FEEL!

My husband has been gone since 1998 and I STILL have whole days where I am consumed with missing his presence here in the physical 3-D realm. When you have had close, warm, and vital contact with someone you love deeply and on a multitude of levels and who loves you equally, you cannot simply put that behind you and go on as if it never happened.

Matt was a huge part of your life, and he remains so!!!!!

Give youself a hug, some chocolate, and permisison to bask in your memories.. even cry if you must! It is not "bad" or inappropriate.. it is the vestiges of a great and powerful love.....!!!!!!!!!!!

God Bless, keep, and comfort you......

Carol

[Silver]

Give youself a hug, some chocolate, and permisison to bask in your memories.. even cry if you must! It is not "bad" or inappropriate.. it is the vestiges of a great and powerful love.....!!!!!!!!!!!

...And buy yourself those dozen (or 2) of Red Roses...

I can't really add anything that's not already been said apart from sending plenty of