Promiscuous Twin

[mysterious]

Would you still be with your twin if they had a history of being promiscuous parties with strippers and enjoyed the company of many women?

I was wondering what peoples views were?

[Christian Male]

That would depend on if a person is willing to forgive. I think when people meet their one and only, that they are able to see past anything and love them for who they are or were; without ever having to worry about their significalt other having a relapse. IMO there are people that embrace this and experience the transformation of both partners and then there are fools.

[Inika]

loving beyond the actions and behaviors is part of unconditionally loving.

caring despite their doings and sayings. Hoping always for the best for them and yourself regardless if it's how you'd like it to be or not.

knowing and understanding this type of connection goes way beyond our physical bodies. Life is serving them and us experiences for soul growth every day. Being able to expand the soul and assist the other by doing so is part of the experiences.

[psychegrl]

Loving them does not mean accepting bad behavior. Having very clear boundaries is important in any relationship but especially with a TF and family situations. Because we tend to love and feel so intensely, we can sometimes accept more than we should from them. Unconditional means without conditions but we are meant to love ourselves first and foremost... unconditionally. And if someone's behavior is not in alignment with the life you are striving for then something has got to change. Either you are not meant to be together or you have a lesson that you need to learn (not them). Since every interaction is placed in front of us for our highest good the lessons are always our own.

Good luck! ♡♡♡

[Inika]

the only thing you can change is to be involved or not. you cannot change another's behaviour if they are not in the same place as you at this time. To love unconditionally does not equal accepting. to love can be done at a very physical distance if needed. To accept bad behaiour is a symptom of low self esteem and lack of self respect and that should be worked on. To love someone unconditionally despite their behavior is to love without a desire or need to be directly involved in all their life's in's and out's. We don't always like or accept behavior of loved ones, mothers, brothers, sisters, friends, yet we love them despite this.

you can change how much you allow yourself to b involved in their antics. this doesn't equate to 'i dont love you'.

[ByChance]

If he left all of that in the past I would be with him.
If he respect me, respect my emotions, honor my body, respect me in bed without trying to control me, if he respect my opinions, if he trust me, if he is honest and faithful, if he doesn't manipulate me out of fear, if he loves me but leaves me wild, if he is willing to live with a fiery and passionate woman who has a fireforest in her chest, but is tender and sweet the same, and if he doesn't want to change her, I don't see any problem in being with him. In change, he can be with a woman who can ride him wild and left him completely satisfied.