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Old 07-06-2019, 12:57 PM
Guff779 Guff779 is offline
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I'll guess I'll wait for another 45 years plus another lifetime just to get a female

And I'm not joking and I'm 29.

I've been crying so hard thinking what's wrong. Every other man got it easily and they got gifted females in their life.

I've read all the pick up artist/dating books from the mainstream ones 9 years ago.

Even I've been on different law of attraction, spiritual forums to answer why does this happen and what do I have to do in 2013.

I've even read karma, law of attraction books in 2012.

And yes I've tried online dating not one replied even though I had a nice profile pic and sent the right messages (researched very in depth in what to write), I've done approaching, I've go out a lot, I've been to uni, I've tried Facebook and no one in the community wants me (but the last 5 men to get married they approached them first).

This after I'm well educated, intelligent, they know I'm attractive, got good qualities and good character, courageous, take care of myself, got resources. I listen well, I'm polite, well-mannered, mature, got many, many good qualities you can think of. They still don't want me or even get to know me.

And even in a financial sense I'm having bad luck, after bad luck. The best way I can describe is I could give 3 guys advice on how to do it, but they do it and I don't and they start laughing at me because they are novices and I am an expert, it's really the best way I can describe the situation in the last 6 months.

I've asked my male friends, cousin to analyse me and I've observed men in relationship and all of that years ago.

It's like the universe isn't willing to put me in those situations and give it and I did go for it and worked very hard.

I have read all the main law of attraction books-seth, ponder, neil donald walsh, deepak chopra, the secret, abe hicks, wayne dier and more since 2013!!

In the last 2.5 years (I'm into astrology and the last 18 months I've had my saturn reture-google it where it test's people and challenge their thinking, matures people). It's like nothing's happening to me?
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Old 07-06-2019, 01:50 PM
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WOW, Don't worry too much, If I'm not mistaken worry is bad for law of attraction, maybe you can check out some of the single females on SF and private message the ones you like? Remember to be patient.
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Old 07-06-2019, 04:06 PM
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It might help to approach women without the 'pick up artist' idea as well. They can tend to put a woman's back up if they think there's a player in front of them. No one wants to be played or feel manipulated.

I just mention it because you wrote about those books in your third line down. I don't know if you still try to follow the advice in those books but I suggest you recycle them pronto.

I once read something... "Do not be concerned about finding the right woman - Be the right man and the right woman will find you". It's true. Follow your hobbies and interests, explore the world just for the sake of it, smile at people with no ulterior motive behind it, be generous with your time and spirit. This may change the way you appear to others, it may change your worldview, and could bring you what you're looking for.

Good luck.
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Old 07-06-2019, 04:17 PM
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You are trying to hard and that puts people off.try befriending them first we don't all get what we want in life.at the time we want it don't be so eager and it will happen for you.


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Old 07-06-2019, 04:20 PM
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Heeeeey, maybe Kaere knows somebody to introduce him too......?
Practice is a good learning school
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Old 07-06-2019, 04:38 PM
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I cannot vouch for someone I do not know.
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Old 07-06-2019, 05:12 PM
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I cannot vouch for someone I do not know.

You're right, I taught 2 adults emailing each other couldn't hurt and when there's more trust video messaging, you know step by step?
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Old 07-06-2019, 08:01 PM
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I'll guess I'll wait for another 45 years plus another lifetime just to get a female

Maybe this title gives a clue to what might be the problem. A woman is not something which a man acquires. Maybe if you stop thinking in terms of "getting a female" then you might find someone who wants to share their time with you.

Peace.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:17 PM
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Dear Guff779,
Maybe it's become a bit of an obsessive thinking-pattern?
That there is something you want to "get" (i.e. a "female"...which term is pretty impersonal for a start! and doesn't seem to have much heart and Soul in it....?)
And that you see that others have "got" what it is you want to get.
And that something is passing you by (yet you are only in your late 20s!)

So as a result of not being able to get this thing that you want, that you see others have got, you feel worthless or lacking in some way as a person?

You need to imagine that even though some have got this "thing" it is very complex , and it doesn't necessarily mean they are all happy in a rose garden either! It doesn't mean they are all in deep meaningful relationships -if you knew them, and knew the details.

So the best thing would be to take a look, and see if that thought has become an obsession. If it has, it is not going to lead you anywhere except self-recrimination, envy and a waste of your life.

Take a look and see -besides sex and mating -if there is anything you have a passion about.
Gaming, gardening, rollerblading, stray dog rescue, crafts, cake making, writing, bee-keeping, astrology, ringing church bells.....it doesn't matter what. And get stuck in to it, simply because you like that subject.
Even the nerdiest subjects will have a whole bunch of people interested in them!
Join a group, or start a group in your neighbourhood, in a town nearby, or even online if you can.

And many groups after their meetings, often socialise together -may go to the pub or someone's place for coffee or just to hang out etc. You might make friends.
Apparently one of the joys of Church bell ringing, is the pint afterwards!

.....uh-oh...DON'T join a group with the obsession about "getting a female" in the driving seat. Tell it to shut up for a bit, and let YOU drive!
What it's about is really getting a life.
Once you get a life, you will be a magnet for anyone else who also has a life and similar interests.
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Old 07-06-2019, 11:29 PM
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And I'm not joking and I'm 29.

I've been crying so hard thinking what's wrong. Every other man got it easily and they got gifted females in their life. ...

This might be the third thread you opened on this subject, and as far as I can say people repeatedly had similar suggestions for you, and they're not helping you an iota.

You should just accept that whatever higher entity, who directs you on this Earth, gave you this script for a reason.

You can't see it now, and if you keep focusing on not having this thing you fervently desire (driven by normal instincts), you'll just succeed in messing up your life, and you won't fulfill any of the higher reasons you incarnated on this Earth as whoever you are now.

Wise guys say: fuhgeddaboudit!

"You can't always get what you want / But if you try sometimes you might find / You get what you need" --- Mick Jagger
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