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Originally Posted by SheShatters
Thank you for answering me. Your writing is very clear and easy to understand. I know that some rare and magical things exist in this world. I totally believe that they do. I kind of think this TF idea is not one of them, and pushing this whole idea of it onto people you don't know, like some of the web sites and videos I have seen, is not responsible. How can a web site guide someone to a higher self? They are totally anonymous, they have no idea who you are or what your mind state and what gives them the right anyway to judge you? Anyway, I actually asked because I have had someone constantly pursue me using the TF relationship as the reason. I am confused, and a bit sad, and a little scared, by the whole thing, so thanks again, a lot for the clarifications and the help.
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A Twin Flame relationship is interdependent, sounds like that person is needy and dependent otherwise they wouldn't behave that way.
When people are TFs they feel an insanely deep connection, both parties do. You don't need to know about Twin Flames at all either so there are TFs who live happily ever after and don't even know they're TFs.
One of the things is that it tends to happen out of the blue. You weren't looking for them, you weren't busy with TFs and often not even busy finding love. It just finds you, because the time is ripe.
Once they've met there can be some spanners in the work, but NOTHING like what people make you believe on fora. This has a reason as well, because the connection runs so deep and it feels so good there is a chance the couple would move too fast. Too fast in the sense that they're not entirely ready for such a high connection yet. That's why often there's something that initially makes it difficult for the two to get together, like distance or one not being able to move closer due to work responsibilities and so on.
This gives the couple time to let the relationship unfold at a slower pace.
This also gives both parties time to work through their last bits and pieces of personal baggage and issues. Typically they won't have much to work through anymore, otherwise they cannot be ready to be a Twin Flame, to enter such a high connection.
This is also how you can recognize the wanna-be TFs for the most part: you can tell they're not nearly done with their personal issues.
The reason you have to be ready is that TFs have a higher purpose. It's not about being lovy dovy, and holding hands on the couch and kissing and cuddling. That would be a Soul Mate relationship.
TFs have come to serve, serve mankind and the planet with the ascension, in ENglish that would be: bring in love. Show the world and humanity what that truly is and means. Sometimes that means the couple has to do something in particular as a life / Soul goal, sometimes it's just being who they are together and spreading Light & Love. You see that as people around a TF couple get touched by their higher energy, the energy of as good as unconditional love. Interdependent relationship, not trying to change one another, but supporting the other, standing next to each other hand in hand. (Most aren't ready for such a relationship at all! For most it's still like "They be perfect for me, if only they changed XYZ!!" ) Other people also feel better and happier when around the TF couple. Everything and everyone seems to light up around them. That's what their purpose is: bring and spread love, show what that is like, what that looks like, what that feels like and so on. Then, when there's enough TF couples other people will begin to change too. That's the purpose of it all.
Also, when you're with your TF you get into alignment with yourself, who you really are, in one go. Like being hit by lightning, in a very PLEASANT way, haha.
This means if you had something you had wanted to do for a long time, like a calling, a dream, a vision, but kept putting it off, then you all of a sudden feel so incredibly inspired that you get on with you and manifest it.
For me it was finishing my first book. I'd had writer's block for almost a year. When I met him I suddenly felt it lift and felt like "I'm going to finish it and have it published! And I want the first publisher I send it to to publish it."
I was adamant, no doubt whatsoever this wouldn't happen.
I finished my book within the next 2 weeks, 2 weeks later I got the taken in by the publisher: indeed the first and ONLY one I had send it to. I was so convinced they'd take it, I didn't bother with more publishers.
That's the kind of alignment you get in when you meet your TF.
I could tell more, but just wanted to give you a bit of a clearer idea of what it's about, and a positive one.
It's nothing to fear, but someone chasing after you with that story... definitely not a TF. I can understand you find that / them scary. I would too! It's someone pushing too hard and you feel scared by it as your intuition is telling you it isn't right.
Also other people fill up the internet with nonsense as they think they know what it's about and how it works while they don't. Yet, they're convinced they are. And there's also a number who think they can talk about it to make money as they've discovered there's a huge market for it.
Funny thing is, my country is quite advanced with spirituality and energy work etc. but over here hardly anyone has ever heard of Twin Flames.
Really peculiar, it seems to live in certain countries a lot and not at all in others.