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[anthony c]

HI
What crystals can i give someone that is very negative stresses and worries about all her problems??
My mom has is very negative these days and has depression as of late.
Any crystals for depression??
Any tips as i am very worried about her??
Thanks

[LoneFlower]

Anthony C, there are quite a few stones that can help lift someone's energy and mood, however, speaking from my own experience, having been depressed and suicidal a few times, stones and crystals are not a magic bullet for curing this kind of stuff. Especially stresses and depression. It's like trying to cover a broken bone with a bandaid, give the person some pain killers, and expecting the broken bone to magically cure itself and be not broken. It doesn't work that way.
Stones, crystals, and meditation can help as an aid, but the only thing that will be of any true help is to get to what's causing her all of the stresses and worries, what's the root issue causing her depression and negativity? Then setting about helping her to relieve her stress and depression from what's causing it. (Going back to the example, getting to that broken bone and getting appropriate help to fix it, help it to heal.) As well as her WANTING to do so. (Because, if she's not wanting to help her help herself, there's no real force on this planet that can outright make her.)

Short version, if you haven't already, sit down with your mother. Talk with her. Help find ways for her to relieve her stress, be a listening, nonjudgemental ear for her to talk to, a shoulder to lean on, along with letting her be in the company stones or crystals that can help during this time.
And if she needs it, suggest going to see a therapist to talk with and get stuff off of her chest. Clear the air. Help make her life better.
Also, help her out and introduce her to soothing sorts of therapies or calming methods. Meditation. Yoga. Relaxing massages. Soothing bubble baths. Aroma therapy. Doing things that she loves to do that puts her mind and heart at ease. Rejuvenates the soul, so to speak. etc.
Take into account the emotional, spiritual, and the physical during this time. Not just one side. It'll help out big time.

As for stones and crystals that are known to help with easing depression / helping one feel better, here are a few suggestions.

KUNZITE (SPODUMENE) Clears emotional blockage, aligns chakras, helps reduce stress and emotional anxiety, and helps one deal with changes in one's life (divorce, death & loss of employment).

Rose Quartz - increases self-assuredness, love stone. Increases self-love and for others too.

Sugilite - Strong physical healer (incredible when combined with Infinite!). Helps to strengthen the relationship between the mind and the body. Helps one deal with stress and feel more balanced emotionally. Excellent for highly sensitive or open people.

Amethyst - encourages inner peace, fights addictive behavior, transforms energy. excellent stone for meditation or dream work, past life work, and to help you see your path. It has also been used to help ease the pain of grief, and promote happiness

AQUAMARINE banishes fears, calms nerves, imparts strength and control. Aquamarine is reputed to assist with calming communication issues

As well as Carnelian.

FYI, this is by no means a complete list. Only a starter list. You can always go onto google to find more 'stones for depression'.

[My Quest]

in case of emergency do visit a medic...
crystals n other therapies could be applied later.
sometimes healings are resisted in such moods.
you asked for crystals:
black obsidian and rose quartz will help.
remember to check before u buy black obsidians most times are fake in jwellery.
when there is not much at hand..
salt water for bath or just dip your feet in it. that relaxes much..
PM for any further queries

[anthony c]

Originally Posted by LoneFlower

Anthony C, there are quite a few stones that can help lift someone's energy and mood, however, speaking from my own experience, having been depressed and suicidal a few times, stones and crystals are not a magic bullet for curing this kind of stuff. Especially stresses and depression. It's like trying to cover a broken bone with a bandaid, give the person some pain killers, and expecting the broken bone to magically cure itself and be not broken. It doesn't work that way.
Stones, crystals, and meditation can help as an aid, but the only thing that will be of any true help is to get to what's causing her all of the stresses and worries, what's the root issue causing her depression and negativity? Then setting about helping her to relieve her stress and depression from what's causing it. (Going back to the example, getting to that broken bone and getting appropriate help to fix it, help it to heal.) As well as her WANTING to do so. (Because, if she's not wanting to help her help herself, there's no real force on this planet that can outright make her.)

Short version, if you haven't already, sit down with your mother. Talk with her. Help find ways for her to relieve her stress, be a listening, nonjudgemental ear for her to talk to, a shoulder to lean on, along with letting her be in the company stones or crystals that can help during this time.
And if she needs it, suggest going to see a therapist to talk with and get stuff off of her chest. Clear the air. Help make her life better.
Also, help her out and introduce her to soothing sorts of therapies or calming methods. Meditation. Yoga. Relaxing massages. Soothing bubble baths. Aroma therapy. Doing things that she loves to do that puts her mind and heart at ease. Rejuvenates the soul, so to speak. etc.
Take into account the emotional, spiritual, and the physical during this time. Not just one side. It'll help out big time.

As for stones and crystals that are known to help with easing depression / helping one feel better, here are a few suggestions.

KUNZITE (SPODUMENE) Clears emotional blockage, aligns chakras, helps reduce stress and emotional anxiety, and helps one deal with changes in one's life (divorce, death & loss of employment).

Rose Quartz - increases self-assuredness, love stone. Increases self-love and for others too.

Sugilite - Strong physical healer (incredible when combined with Infinite!). Helps to strengthen the relationship between the mind and the body. Helps one deal with stress and feel more balanced emotionally. Excellent for highly sensitive or open people.

Amethyst - encourages inner peace, fights addictive behavior, transforms energy. excellent stone for meditation or dream work, past life work, and to help you see your path. It has also been used to help ease the pain of grief, and promote happiness

AQUAMARINE banishes fears, calms nerves, imparts strength and control. Aquamarine is reputed to assist with calming communication issues

As well as Carnelian.

FYI, this is by no means a complete list. Only a starter list. You can always go onto google to find more 'stones for depression'.

Thanks for all your advice
She is much better was just a bad day i guess
I do have Rose Quartz will give it to her
Many thanks

[anthony c]

Originally Posted by My Quest

in case of emergency do visit a medic...
crystals n other therapies could be applied later.
sometimes healings are resisted in such moods.
you asked for crystals:
black obsidian and rose quartz will help.
remember to check before u buy black obsidians most times are fake in jwellery.
when there is not much at hand..
salt water for bath or just dip your feet in it. that relaxes much..
PM for any further queries

Hey thanks for your tips.
She is better today was just a bad day
Got Rose quarts will give it to her
Thanks allot

[echozcrystals]

Smoky Quartz might also work well. It's well known for taking in negative energy and transforming it into positive energy. I wear smoky quartz around my neck almost daily...