Two dreams about disharmony

[TonySG]

Hi
Was just looking for some insights on a few recent dreams. I had both of these dreams on the same night. They may have even been the same dream.

1 - Felt like I was in a hotel abroad. I was in a room with two men. One was a famous DJ and the other was his friend i think. I was chatting for a long time with the DJ telling him that I used to be a fan of his and had seen him play many years ago in a popular nightclub. I remember I didn't get on very well with the other person.

2 - I was with a old friend from University called Dean who I haven't seen in years. He was with a big group of his friends (guys and girls) and they all thought I was weird/strange. There was a big fat woman from a dating site who wanted to have sex with me.

One of the main things that hit me about both of these dreams was the disharmony which was created by my presence. I have felt like this throughout my life in real situations.

Can anyone shed some light on these please? Thanks!

[Perfection]

It means you haven't reached Elvis status yet, & are still in the dog-eat-dog world of the average moron.

[H:O:R:A:C:E]

a DJ has a certain celebrity status, and you'd been a fan of his persona for
many years... that friend of his might be representing the "darker", or less
obvious aspects of the same person, and you'd not got on well with that guy.
the feeling seems to have originated from you.
in part 2, it seems that you've adopted the 'alternate identity' of your friend
Dean (you were acting as his "darker side"). his friends got on with him just
fine, but found you odd. it's relevant to point out that "weird/strange" isn't
necessarily 'repellent'... they might have found you 'intriguing' if you'd
allowed your freak flag to fly freely (rather than become defensive).
the "big fat woman from a dating site" is representing the possibility for
copious love to come your way, if you were inclined to accept it.

on the whole, the dreams seem to speak to your coming to terms with a
less than idealized version of yourself which desires acceptance and love.

[TonySG]

Originally Posted by H:O:R:A:C:E

a DJ has a certain celebrity status, and you'd been a fan of his persona for
many years... that friend of his might be representing the "darker", or less
obvious aspects of the same person, and you'd not got on well with that guy.
the feeling seems to have originated from you.
in part 2, it seems that you've adopted the 'alternate identity' of your friend
Dean (you were acting as his "darker side"). his friends got on with him just
fine, but found you odd. it's relevant to point out that "weird/strange" isn't
necessarily 'repellent'... they might have found you 'intriguing' if you'd
allowed your freak flag to fly freely (rather than become defensive).
the "big fat woman from a dating site" is representing the possibility for
copious love to come your way, if you were inclined to accept it.

on the whole, the dreams seem to speak to your coming to terms with a
less than idealized version of yourself which desires acceptance and love.

Thats helpful. Thank you!