Dear friend committed suicide

The rejection of life by someone so young is a reminder to all who love life, to smell the roses longer.

[EverythingAllowed]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I had a past life suicide, and I want to assure you--like several other people have--that your friend isn't in pain anymore, but now is at peace. She is in a beautiful place, she is Home, surrounded by love and light. She will come to terms with what she did and she will come back again, and the next time she is here, she will have learned from this incarnation.

I can't offer you any perspective from your point of view, since I am the one who left but I wanted you to know--from someone's firsthand experience, that she is at peace now and will take what she needs to from this lifetime. No lifetime, even one that is cut short, is wasted.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk more about any of this.

[John32241]

Originally Posted by EverythingAllowed

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I had a past life suicide, and I want to assure you--like several other people have--that your friend isn't in pain anymore, but now is at peace. She is in a beautiful place, she is Home, surrounded by love and light. She will come to terms with what she did and she will come back again, and the next time she is here, she will have learned from this incarnation.

I can't offer you any perspective from your point of view, since I am the one who left but I wanted you to know--from someone's firsthand experience, that she is at peace now and will take what she needs to from this lifetime. No lifetime, even one that is cut short, is wasted.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk more about any of this.

That is a very nice perspective.

Thank you for sharing it with us.

John

[EbonyDoe]

I too am sorry for your loss*hug*. Sometimes people prefer to keep their pain from others because they don't wish to burden them and it eventually builds up (I know from past experience).

Though your dream kinda makes me think she's trying to tell you she's ok and happy in whatever afterlife she's in, or maybe that she's been reincarnated (am unsure of your beliefs but is what I seemed to get from the dream).

I found out more details about it earlier. My heart is broken.

She bought things online to kill herself with weeks before she did it, it was very well researched and planned

[Lynn]

Hello

It is never easy to face this situation. Too it is never easy for those left behind to understand WHY someone so wants out of life. We have to simply embrace that they are ok now and healed of what ever so bothered them in life.

There are things in life that no matter how hard we try to move past them or talk about them we can not. That is where we find ourselves in that darkest of places and sadly at times we can not move out of it. I send blessing to ye and the family.


Lynn

Originally Posted by HallowsEve

I found out more details about it earlier. My heart is broken.

She bought things online to kill herself with weeks before she did it, it was very well researched and planned

That is also what I picked up. I'm sorry :(

[Zagacat]

((((Hugs)))))