So I Sabotaged It... :(

[Nymphea]

Originally Posted by sesheta

If he is truly your TF, then there is a very good chance that, after some cooling-down time and some time apart, you will find your way back to each other again.
Unfortunately sometimes in TF relationships we do tend to hurt each other due to the intensity of the connection....but I don't think you can totally sever it. Just give him space, and let things calm down....

I agree. Just give him space and a time off and he'll come back if he's your true TF.
My TF hurts me too, unintentionally but out of powerlessness to cope with the hopeless situation at the moment. I saw him yesterday and he pretends like I mean nothing to him, like I am just a random person. he didn't even want to sit next to me during Christmas dinner. But I know what's beneath all of this; it's only fear and hopelessness. It will pass!
Take care!

[frenchbread]

Originally Posted by BeautifulLife

A beautiful life is both mine and your birthright. So yes, its beautiful even when the sun doesn't shine since the light of my soul is always bright enough to show me the way.

Well put BL. 100% agree!

I am very sorry for your pain and thank you for sharing as we all can learn and have been there/will either in this or another life. We all have egos that are not our true Selves, and we say things just as you did. We are here trying to spiritually grow so situations are bound to happen - you are able to reflect and recognize the mishap. So, that is a great thing! Your soulmate connection will never be broken even though it seems so now. Anytime you think of your TF, send loving thoughts and most importantly, send love to you! I know the empty, hopeless feelings are very tough. Fate will have you guys together when the time is perfect.