How do men experience soul connections

Robot · #1 19-04-2016, 05:45 PM

Need men's povs please lol

It seems like my tf isn't too aware of his feelings but at the same time is sorta controlled by them. Like he acts out and does stuff but gives a blank when it comes to anything involving recognizing feelings of the moment esp the subtler ones. I guess also gotta consider that he's not awake yet. For me it was the longing and instant recognition of similarities at a very deep level. It's like he says he doesn't feel stuff but he sure is good at acting out

Baile · #2 19-04-2016, 06:24 PM

Obviously one can only speak form their experience, I'm not sure there is one generic "man's perspective." I was always a sensitive male, I've been all about honoring the female since the age of about 7, it honestly started that early for me. But my unconscious life still had to play out. I hurt people in my 20's, that was a pretty unconscious time for me. I started getting it together in my 30's. It was in my 40's that my fully-conscious self came into being.

In one relationship I didn't love the person, and was too cowardly to get out of it for several reasons. So that was one reason I hurt the person: I wasn't thoughtful and considerate because I didn't love them.

In the other long relationship I had, I cared for the person, but they were always putting stuff on me: what I was doing and who I was, wasn't enough. And I'm going to tell you how extreme and ridiculous that got: by the end of the relationship, I was the one working, and paying the mortgage and all the bills, and doing all the cooking and housework, and STILL she left on a moment's notice without telling me a thing. I came home and her bags were packed, she was moving to another city and had already rented a place! And I'm not a bad person, I'm happy in life. There was just nothing I could do to please her apparently.

I will say this though: the burden of never being enough, yet still having to do and be everything, had turned to resentment. And that resentment manifested as lack of interest in being close to the person. In that case I was hurt more than just disinterested. But the result was the same.

JoeVallee · #3 19-04-2016, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Robot

Need men's povs please lol

It seems like my tf isn't too aware of his feelings but at the same time is sorta controlled by them. Like he acts out and does stuff but gives a blank when it comes to anything involving recognizing feelings of the moment esp the subtler ones. I guess also gotta consider that he's not awake yet. For me it was the longing and instant recognition of similarities at a very deep level. It's like he says he doesn't feel stuff but he sure is good at acting out

Well Robot,
I’m speaking from experience when twin flames meet there is an connection that no one can deny ik comes from deep in your soul. When one twin is awake it is his or her mission to wake the other one up. Before I met my twin I was working for years to awaken and the drive to grow spiritually was so powerful that I changed everything in my life to try to awaken. It was after meeting my twin and spending time with her that my heart chakra opened and because of that I have grown in the last months more than in the 20 years of preparing for this meeting (not Knowing) it was coming. She was just through a dark night of the soul when a couple years later started receiving energy healing and when she showed up at my work as a colleague, We made statements like I know you we are 21 years apart from age and she wanted to know how I awakened. We would talk about mediation, yoga changing to healthier food and drinking water or tea. Making affirmations and everything that I had already changed. She took up the same things and she has grown so spiritually the last 3 years. It was just after my heart opened that we realized we were twins we have so much unconditional love for each other and we are both working as light workers ( our light is so bright when we send out the same intentions). Any way back to my story the awaken twin should try to help the other to awaken then that is when the real magic happens. We are here for a mission the mission could very well be just to love each other and bring that light to this world.
Joe

Lucyan28 · #4 19-04-2016, 07:08 PM

Intense feelings/emotions, wanting to protect the other person, and thinking all day about this person.

Robot · #5 19-04-2016, 07:13 PM

I wouldn't say disinterest as much as i think my tf has shut out feelings at some levels but they definitely show in the way he acts. and yea he's been hurt before. Thanks guys.

loulou1986 · #6 19-04-2016, 07:18 PM

Wrong thread

parnellm · #7 19-04-2016, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucyan28

Intense feelings/emotions, wanting to protect the other person, and thinking all day about this person.

All the above and in my case, its like I am apart of her life and her.. I can feel
every emotion she goes through.

BlueCat · #8 20-04-2016, 01:44 AM

I don't think there is much difference between men or women having this experience, it depends of how a person's mindset is, how open is with their feelings, because there are still people that say (my TF said it) women have more feelings and men less, while from one of his dream i understood he was really repressing his true self and "anima"/feeling side, because he dreamt to be badly deceived and left by seeming innocent girls and himself feeling insecure, also a sign of going for the wrong women all the time.
Both genders have the same feelings and experiences, but it depends how a person grew up his or her understanding of feelings and love.
On the flip side, i knew women that were cold and cruel while some men sensible and in touch with their feelings. Who says women are just the sentimental ones is very wrong

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Heart · #9 20-04-2016, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Robot

Need men's povs please lol

It seems like my tf isn't too aware of his feelings but at the same time is sorta controlled by them. Like he acts out and does stuff but gives a blank when it comes to anything involving recognizing feelings of the moment esp the subtler ones. I guess also gotta consider that he's not awake yet. For me it was the longing and instant recognition of similarities at a very deep level. It's like he says he doesn't feel stuff but he sure is good at acting out

He is doing the correct thing by not allowing his heart and mind ro be effected by his experience of these connections even if he is aware of this or not. He seems to be allowing the connection to happen then he let's it go

This is not because he's unaware as what he is doing is reflecting what we should all be doing

After all what is these connections but energy it's transfer and balance

John32241 · #10 20-04-2016, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Robot

Need men's povs please lol

It seems like my tf isn't too aware of his feelings but at the same time is sorta controlled by them. Like he acts out and does stuff but gives a blank when it comes to anything involving recognizing feelings of the moment esp the subtler ones. I guess also gotta consider that he's not awake yet. For me it was the longing and instant recognition of similarities at a very deep level. It's like he says he doesn't feel stuff but he sure is good at acting out

Hi,

In my view, some men are not as in touch with their feminine side as other men. You can say that they are not awake yet. That is a reasonable explanation.

My experience has been that men who listen to women when they speak are focusing on her energetically. They can sense feelings beyond the words.

Another perception I have is that thinking we focus our attention on generates emotions. When a guy is not conscious of his thinking, his emotions will run his life.

John