Thank you
From sharing this I wanted to share the beginning,,,
Almost a from this to this step, I wrote this in September 2007
I know you two know these words, yet your encouragement has encouraged me to share it with others
Do we have a direction in life?
Do we all get to be a husband or wife?
Will we get the chance to pro-create?
Is it about finding our perfect mate?
We may never find them or indeed things may go wrong
Is this about finding out if we’re weak or strong?
Is weakness shown when we run away?
Or is it shown when we decide to stay?
When do we decide it’s not gonna work
And let the other person decide to shirk?
Do we learn to accept and let the other person be?
The way that they are. They can’t make you happy!
Through doing this you can learn you don’t suit
How long till you realise they don’t give a hoot?
You may see they can’t accept you the way that they are
Even though the relationship has travelled quite far.
Is this the time to part and take a different route?
And make way for an internal dispute
Why does your heart feel different to what your head says?
And your body cry out in many ways
Is it the time to accept it and learn to grieve?
And be ready to look at the scar it will leave
A scar that can deepen as you open old wounds
And allow any future liaisons be destined for doom
Should you buck your ideas up or get a grip
Or let your heart take over and feel the blip?
Cry, get angry, and even lose control
While you search for the reasons within your soul
Understand why things went wrong
Adhere to the things that make you feel strong
Know it takes two to make or break
Realise that it’s about give and take
You can do this, it’s hard, but you will see
That you’ll be living back in reality
Then it’s time to reflect and appreciate
That although it served purpose, it wasn’t in your fate
Find ways to walk your journey, your way in life
Accept that there’s good as well as the strife
It’s about learning to love the person that’s you
So that you can then love anyone else that’s passing through
All levels of love different, some loves untrue
Some fall by the wayside, some stick like glue
Each connection you make, no matter the length
Will enable you to gain an inner strength
So abandon your fears and really let go
When things are right, it’s something you know
There will be no reason for you to doubt
And the life for you will turn about
It’ll turn you upside down not knock you for six
And it won’t feel like a heroin fix
It’ll feel pure and true even if times get hard
And you’ll hold them in the highest regard
Your journeys will meet and you’ll travel a while
Yet this won’t be counted in kilometre or mile
Your time will be endless no matter how long
And nothing about it will ever feel wrong
It's been interesting, to say the least,,,
Love and hugs
Jo
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