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Hello, fellow spiritual enthusiasts and psychically embodied kinsmen. My troubles have intensified as of late in a relationship with a beautiful woman, and I require some advice to soothe the pain we both suffer.

Her and I have been together for three long, wonderful years. She confessed her power of empathy (emotional reading) as we began our relationship. As we continued to change (as I was only 16 and she only 18) I began to understand my abilities in telepathy. As the relationship moved onward, her inner demons released her rage from the cage in which it resided and lashed out upon me, twice physically in a short span of time. She could not understand why she felt so disgruntled and unhappy with me. On my side of the page, I began reading her feelings to understand how she felt, and discovered some horrid facts. She was in love with me, but held a heavy heart within her breast for two other men, one of which she cast her heart to in her past, and the other she had just recently befriended. I became jealous of these feelings she possessed and began to act controlling and curt on a subconscious scale, and at one point made attempts to learn to control her thoughts (which I did only once, and regretted). Now we are no longer, and she has fled to the recently befriended. I told her as she left me I had these abilities, and they have led to more trouble as I see what they do, and it is tearing my mind apart.

How do I learn to control what I read, as I have no control over who or what I hear (a childhood problem I possessed was hearing thousands of voices in different languages, which I still do) and how do I make the situation better. She is still madly in love with me, but she'll have none of my attitude I displayed while we were together. I truly do not understand, and this burden is heavily carried. If any more information is required, please let me know. Telepathic connection is not available as I am still trying to differentiate between who I am listening to and how to black out all the other voices at this time. Thank you all for your time and concern.