Originally Posted by catsquotl
Well I do care about a lot of stuff.
And even though I thought I was reported did feel like stars.
You are right. I should care less about those things and my perception of being misunderstood. If I read you're posts you say you understand me quite well. Even though I see myself differently than what you make me out to be in your responses
I guess I must be misunderstanding myself then. Maybe I am not open enough. Maybe I don't understand enough. How could I miss what you seem to perceive so clearly.
See what i did there?
I showed something, but i'm guessing it will be explained as either sarcasm or repressed emotion.
What I tried to do was show that my intended message does not necessarily line up with your felt understanding of that message.
Suddenly reminded of a song by Tommy Iommy and Ozzy.
Who's fooling who..
I pick at scabs too as well as linger..
Eeewwwy, scab picking..yucky! Im turned right off you now.
As for understanding you, understanding your emotional outpouring is pretty obvious. Even when you were upset last week, your feelings were apparent without being spoken. As for today, you said why you were sad and gave reason.
You show what you want in this thread. But sometimes we don't get what we want and we make choices or react in ways that shows itself off quite strongly. SO that "feel" level from you has been pretty obvious.
I don't need to show you anything, you know yourself best.
My conversations and comments, were only based on the moments I was aware of you. It doesn't tell your life story and I hear your points beyond feel level, when your not so antsy pantsy about things. Sometimes I choose not to hear them, because I know your feel level isn't clear. I am that good you know..hehe
Understanding can be born through each moment shared, it shows you in that moment. Moment to moment, whether it stays the same or shifts, I can see the difference in myself and others in this way, because I notice myself that way.
Did you know the more clear you are at the "feel" level, not containing what you would like to share and need, it comes across more clear and direct. You know people actually listen and take notice, but if your all wrapped up in yourself and being all antsy pantsy, the message and request will fall on deaf ears. Not always but sometimes for someone very aware of the underlying movements.
For you thinker types, it doesn't register of course until you gain the bigger picture, collate all data and then whosh, you spring forth like madam butterfly..Its worth waiting for.