Has anyone taken up a habit of your tf/sc?

[Aurora Borealis]

smARTistic: LOL! That's hilarious, and actually kinda cute!
- Hey, there can NEVER be too much info on these matters. :p :) xx

[smARTistic girl]

Hahaha, doesn't feel cute. Feels flat out weird. But I don't let it phase me. Anymore. ;)

[frenchbread]

I don't think I've taken up any habit that my Tf has but that might be because I haven't spent alot of time with him in the last few years. Idk (shrugs).

[smARTistic girl]

Originally Posted by AutumnL

Smarty that is crazy! Lol the hardest part is feeling his emotions like when he is depressed, missing me...it hurts! :(

Yeah, I've always had that. Even before I knew for sure we were connected. It came close to making me crazy... thinking that I could feel someone else's feelings. Turns out to be more common than I could have ever imagined. If it gives you problems - you can't deal with it - let me know and I can try to give you some pointers that may take the edge off.

[Teal]

Before i actually spoke to tf about my "crush" on him or any of it. i knew he had a thing for red heads. I am a natural red head. I always would try to be blonder in the past. I finally thought why am i running from my roots lol. anyways when he and I talked about things we liked he mentioned the redhead thing.(He didn't know it was me yet I talked to him through a dating site type thing) I said mine is natural red and I had green eyes and tiny freckles. He said can I marry you know something to this effect anyways. I said wow most are repelled by this. He said not me.

So since then. I let my freckles show. I highlight my green eyes. I emphasize me.

I know I caused some pain when I dangled me in front of him. knowing I was the "perfect" woman for him. well his dream gal anyways. That is why I avoid him like the plague. I keep a safe distance from him.

I figure he knows how to contact me......

[Teal]

I should also mention that we have the same habits previously.....

Originally Posted by smARTistic girl

Yeah, I've always had that. Even before I knew for sure we were connected. It came close to making me crazy... thinking that I could feel someone else's feelings. Turns out to be more common than I could have ever imagined. If it gives you problems - you can't deal with it - let me know and I can try to give you some pointers that may take the edge off.

I do feel crazy now a days, his energy is so strong around me within me at times that it feels like he is in my face. Its weird because some days its manageable while other days I am going crazy and cannot concentrate on nothing lol I think we both distract each other, like one of us starts it and its amplified for as long as we both let it.How do u deal with it, I love feeling him especially when its our love flowing to each other, but when he is sad I just want to break down ugh

[frenchbread]

Interesting teal. My tf and I have quite the redhead theme in our relationship as well.

Originally Posted by tealtwist

Before i actually spoke to tf about my "crush" on him or any of it. i knew he had a thing for red heads. I am a natural red head. I always would try to be blonder in the past. I finally thought why am i running from my roots lol. anyways when he and I talked about things we liked he mentioned the redhead thing.(He didn't know it was me yet I talked to him through a dating site type thing) I said mine is natural red and I had green eyes and tiny freckles. He said can I marry you know something to this effect anyways. I said wow most are repelled by this. He said not me.

So since then. I let my freckles show. I highlight my green eyes. I emphasize me.

I know I caused some pain when I dangled me in front of him. knowing I was the "perfect" woman for him. well his dream gal anyways. That is why I avoid him like the plague. I keep a safe distance from him.

I figure he knows how to contact me......

I can relate to avoiding him like the plague lol. It has alot to do with the fact I am terrified by him which is mutual and I know it hurts him to see me in a way as it hurts me too!

[Teal]

His hair isn't red. I go for dudes with blown hair and blue eyes. it is odd that my girls father has this going on. I meat him a couple years after meeting tf. there is a similarity to them.