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Originally Posted by fire-in-your-new-shoes
My father passed away early this morning because of a terrible car accident, a one car collision into a side of a bridge... I'm so distraught, he was only 48. Please, does anybody have any insight on what happened? Was he in pain? Please, can anybody help :( I feel guilty, and I don't know what to do.
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First my dear, I give you my deepest condolences.
You and your family will face the hard time of grief, but all that suffering, which is very natural, will progressively heal when you are able to convert such pain into positive thoughts, good remembrances of him, and loving actions toward other beings around you. It is not very easy but possible. Take your time. I suggest you to express your feelings and to go at your own pace, which is very personal.
What happened? He went where all of us will eventually go, only a little bit before.
When someone passes, the being gets rid of their material body but his/her spirit remains. When the first time emotions calm down, you will be surely able to contact him, in many different ways, because if they have been beloved, they stay near their people here to help and to love them. and the ones who are here perfectly can feel their presence inside their heart.
Think that everything has a reason. I cannot tell you why a man who was only 48 passed away, but there are a divine plan for sure. In such plan all of us go ahead on paths of different experiences, but at the end, the evolution is always for good.
I can guess that he did not suffered at all because his guides and God took his hand to make his passage much easier. It is said that happens like that.
I cannot guess why do you feel guilty, but what I know is that it is of no help, neither for him nor for you. Maybe when you finally set up a communication with him (it could take some time) you will be able to talk, ask for his forgiveness if necessary, and heal that issue too.
A couple of comments:
Recently my beloved husband, whom I adored, passed, not because of an accident but due to an illness. I am still elaborating his absence and everything, and all what I told you was said from my own experience and from my heart.
Try to pray, it is very healing, I do not mean anything related to a religion or doctrine, pray in your own words, like communicating with the spirit world, request help to your guides and pray for him who is going to the light, and for you, your family, and your spiritual development.
You will be in my prayers too...
Love and light,
TISS 
My father :(
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