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Old 26-08-2016, 09:29 PM
GalTrav GalTrav is offline
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Different Social Class

Just wondering if you would pursue a relationship with someone whom is "out of your league" ... think, heaven and earth ...
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Old 27-08-2016, 12:33 AM
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In the old days, I would think it was fine. No such thing as class and all that. These days I am more withdrawn, and probably would not bother.

Play it cool maybe? Try and get her/him to come to you?
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Old 27-08-2016, 05:01 AM
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Just wondering if you would pursue a relationship with someone whom is "out of your league" ... think, heaven and earth ...

Hmm the thread title says 'different social class', but the expression 'out of your league' is typically used in reference to someone who is perceived to be of a certain degree of physical attractiveness that there is a feeling of the two individuals not being a suitable 'match' on that level (physical compatibility/attraction)...

Can you clarify the circumstances that you are inquring about? If this is about socioecomic backgrounds then I hardly see that as any barrier or impediment for two mature individuals coming together and sharing some kind of meaningful relationship...

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Old 27-08-2016, 05:53 AM
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Just wondering if you would pursue a relationship with someone whom is "out of your league" ... think, heaven and earth ...

No, i would never pursue a relationship with you.
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Old 27-08-2016, 06:49 AM
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Just wondering if you would pursue a relationship with someone whom is "out of your league" ... think, heaven and earth ...
Not sure what "heaven and earth" means but..........
IMO and experience, once a person works on or improves their self esteem and self respect NOBODY is out of their league. If anything, such a self respecting person might find it difficult to find another self respecting person to love & relate to.
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Old 27-08-2016, 06:50 AM
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When you say "out of your league", I feel there is a sense of inferiority towards the other person. Sadly, society has labelled us depending on our income, social status and appearances.

If a personality cannot see what's underneath the surface, then they are not worth pursuing.
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Old 27-08-2016, 07:06 AM
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Labels don't matter. People do.

My husband grew up in a council house with very little money. I grew up in a house where every solution was to pay someone to sort it out - we had a gardener, decorators, cleaners etc. Socially our upbringings were miles apart. Once I turned 18 however, like every other student, I had to look after myself whilst at university.

We're very happy. I love his friends, they're solid, reliable, and lovely whereas my friendship groups are larger but less intimate, more social acquaintances than true friends. We run a business together now so we're tied in every way - a mortgage, children, a dog and a business. And we still get along. Take a chance.
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Old 27-08-2016, 07:15 AM
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We're very happy.
IMO, this is all that really matters.
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Old 27-08-2016, 02:26 PM
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If I were single and looking, someone's social class wouldn't bother me at all if I felt a genuine connection with the person and the feelings were mutual...

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If a personality cannot see what's underneath the surface, then they are not worth pursuing.

I agree! :)
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Old 28-08-2016, 06:50 AM
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Just wondering if you would pursue a relationship with someone whom is "out of your league" ... think, heaven and earth ...

Do you mean Angel and human?
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