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Old 06-01-2018, 11:00 PM
evariste evariste is offline
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can anyone explain this???

I have been experiencing something very strange which I cannot explain. I have been very thoughtful about it as well as prayerful, but none of my higher powers have revealed to me what is going on.

Recently (in the last year) I have been experiencing what I can only explain as energy vampirism. I have had three people come into my life who I feel utterly drained by. The first was a friend who I would also cuddle with/nap with sometimes. I noticed that after spending more than a few hours with him I began to feel incredibly drained. One time I actually fell asleep and took a nap with him and when I woke up I almost felt sucked dry. I had a lot of anxiety from feeling so incredibly weak and drained of mental power and began to distance myself from him after. I wouldn't say he was particularly clingy or needy, just a massive energy drain.

The next was a boyfriend I had for only about 3 months. I would again feel sucked dry of my energy after spending a day or night together. Spending an entire night sleeping together was especially draining. I eventually broke it off and one big reason was this energy transfer.

The third and most recent is my current boyfriend. We have been together about 8 months. At first I didn't notice anything but now it turns out he is the worst of them all. If energy were blood I feel like I have all but a few drops left after we spend any considerable amount of time together. If it is two or three days I almost feel dead. With him the energy drain is so bad that I have a fuzzy mind and think slowly when I'm with him because my mental energy is sapped. Among the three he does exhibit some off-behavior. He is obsessed with any kind of almost constant body contact, holding my hand, ect. At night I call him the octopus, because he manages to always find his way to my side of the bed in the middle of the night and wrap his extremities around me. I know enough about energy work that he also seems to unknowingly target my energy centers. He always puts his hands on my mid-back (spine), the top of my head, my heart and groin. He also puts his bare feet on top of my feet. It's actually creepy because he does this subconsciously. He will promise to stay on "his side" of the bed at night but in the middle of the night crawls over to me. I have awoken multiple times to find the palm of his hand out flat directly above my head like he is plugged into my crown chakra and sucking me dry. I have tried to talk to him about all this but he just laughs and has no point of reference to energy or metaphysical things. I am white and he is Korean... don't know if that plays into it. Also, all of these men have been shorter and smaller than me.

I wonder if the difference in size and energy levels means I lose my energy and they gain it because science says energy always goes from a higher to lower state. The weird thing is this has never happened to me before and now it has gotten so bad that it is literally interfering with my life. I don't especially want to break up with my current boyfriend but I have no other choice if this continues. Does anyone have any insight into what is going on or what could fix it?! I feel cursed, almost like Rogue from X-men except the exact opposite of her problem. She sucks the energy out where as I get the energy sucked out of me. I just want to know how to explain all of this. Recently I've been reading historical Chinese texts about yin/yang, and qi (vital essence). I get the impression that the wrong combination of elements in two people can end up in a draining dynamic like this. One final note, not sure if it has to do with this, but my grandmother has talked about her grandpa several times to me, that he was some kind of folk healer (from Poland). She said verbatim that when he laid his hands on people they would become healed... one example was when he laid hands on people with broken bones and they became instantly healed.

Any insight/advice/intuition GREATLY appreciated as I feel like I'm being drained of my life.
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Old 07-01-2018, 06:43 AM
SpiritualLee-Lea SpiritualLee-Lea is offline
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First I would have blood work drawn to make sure you don’t have a mineral deficiency like iron and B vitamins. Seriously. However you say it only occurs when you’re with a boyfriend so energy is zapped ONLY when with a boyfriend I would suggest asking and getting as much information about your healing grandfather from your grandmother. For example, his healing techniques and interference blocking from others. Have you tried healing anything? If not try and see what happens. There are healers in this world and you may be one of them. Good luck and blessings.
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Old 08-01-2018, 05:37 PM
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Hi evariste,

You are open to the 5th chakra and are beginning to feel the energy around you and from others.

What you are feeling is not energy vampires.

What you are feeling is shared issues from those around you.

If the issue wasn't shared the energy would flow on through non attaching.

If you don't mind me asking. What practices are you currently doing or do you follow a particular tradition?
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Old 08-01-2018, 09:58 PM
evariste evariste is offline
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I am not following a particular religion. I consider myself spiritual, pray to god and angels, and would say I gravitate more toward pagan traditions. I also have quite a few crystals and know a bit about natural health.
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Old 09-01-2018, 07:27 AM
mihael_11 mihael_11 is offline
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It can't be like that directly, that every boyfriend is vampire.

It is maybe more like, that something or someone is manefesting through them that is draining you.

So, don't take it too personal and look beyond.
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Old 10-01-2018, 02:37 AM
evariste evariste is offline
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I am thinking that what is actually happening is that the gift my grandpa had is turning on in me and this must be part of it... if someone has anything that needs healing and I'm in the radius, it starts to come out of me to "heal" them. Come to think of it, the second boyfriend's health visibly improved after we were together. and upon further thought, I have revived multiple animals (some wild) that seemed dead/dying by holding them.
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