Am I just obsessed?

[Samglz23]

He is not responding to any of my attempts at communicating with him. I have never told him how I actually feel bc Honestly we didn't have very much contact before he just stopped responding. But it has been 4 years & I just keep thinking about him. Sometimes I wonder if it's just the chase that my brain keeps going back to or what. But a couple years back I was having dreams that felt so real & then nothing. in one dream I was sitting in his parents house(which I have never seen) and I could feel the carpet.

Then I could see him n even every detail of his clothing, months later He shared a photo on social media, wearing the same sweater. I am beginning to think I am just some crazy person. I am just looking for advice or opinions(even if they are very blunt)

I hope not blunt but if I may say it sounds a little obsessive. I'm still trying to work out what twin flaming is about and one factor seems to be an awareness, (probably intuitive) is that two souls suddenly find they lock together as if each person has but half a soul and finds the other half. Such seems to be the thoughts of Teal Swan and others.

When you first encounter someone you and they mutually straight-away like there's a tendency to be on your best behaviour - perfectly natural. So there's a chance that one or the other could be seeing signs that aren't really there - maybe even twisting things into signs. The point is that it's easy to assume that the other person has the other half of one's soul (as it were) when this really isn't the case.

I've read here among these threads nice supportive stuff like "he just isn't awakened yet"....which speaks for itself. were that the case the seeker wouldn't know if the other person is a real target. It seems horribly presumptuous to imagine that someone else should fit in with ones hopes. It could be that he or she isn't. If nothing mates the souls within 5 years or so then it would seem doubtful and that you're chasing rainbows.

It might be best just to be happy in yourself. One failing of this twin flame idea is that you aren't half a soul wandering around looking for its completing twin, you are a soul in your own right and you can take a decision to go out there and enjoy life. It's all too OCD to me. I've met one or two people who I thought could be soul mates but in the cold light of day we've drifted apart as the depths of us become apparent and just don't match.

You aren't crazy at all. Many do get obsessions about people but if things really don't work out they have to move on.


....

[lostsoul13]

Sometimes a obsession is an obscene to be 'seen' -- what may be seen is invertly overtly the obsession... Overtly being key to the self as one is overtly.... (In partaking) it's just an instreggestion..

[Mused]

Youre not crazy, but it sounds as he is not interested. Maybe he has some qualities that attracted you, and its also important to look inside and see what he woke up in you.

Yeah it could be the chase or many things. Even if he is a soul connection its better to try and take the focus off of him and put it back on you.

[oldasthesea]

I don´t think you´re crazy. I had have a very vivid dreams also only i know the meaning of it. My advice is don´t tell this to everyone some people just don´t understand this kind of dreams and the story behind it.
It is just not the right time for you 2 to move foward. Just relax and go with the flow.
It´s what i am doing right now and feel so much better and not obsessing over him cause when the time is right the doors open in unexpected ways.
Now dreams come and go and he is in the background like watching everything.

Hope this helps somehow.