Do other stuff also seem to manifest "the hard way"?

MissCreativeSpirit · #1 17-02-2019, 05:01 PM

Somewhere along the way when I was young, my family managed to teach me to manifest what I want thru crisis and great strife or drama. Yes I am from an alcoholic family.

I have tried my best to affirm that "all can be easy." But at times I still manifest like I am now, moving cuties in very short notice in great anxiety. Eagerly wanted this, but not in a rough and confusing way. I cannot be the only one that struggles with this!

JohnHermes · #2 22-02-2019, 02:03 PM

I don't see how you can. Manifestation happens through focus or mental concentration. Manifesting depends on focus. To gain that we need practice through subconscious programming techniques like meditation, dream yoga, and mini mantra's to repeat throughout the day. The only way to manifest true will is to keep the mind silent so the Will of desire can manifest itself.

iamthat · #3 22-02-2019, 05:22 PM

And don't forget the power of gratitude, with the expectation of receiving that which we desire.

Neville Goddard is worth reading.

Peace.

MissCreativeSpirit · #4 23-02-2019, 08:59 PM

I also have a history and actually now too, of attracting narcissists to try to befriend me and be in my life/manipulate me. I want to stop this cycle!

JohnHermes · #5 25-02-2019, 11:16 AM

Start depolarizing. Get in the routine of creating different mental habits in order to gain strong perspective over thoughts/emotions/energy. Are you doing any practices as of now?

Miss Hepburn · #6 25-02-2019, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by JohnHermes

I don't see how you can. Manifestation happens through focus or mental concentration. Manifesting depends on focus. To gain that we need practice through subconscious programming techniques like meditation, dream yoga, and mini mantra's to repeat throughout the day. The only way to manifest true will is to keep the mind silent so the Will of desire can manifest itself.

Well, aren't you a welcome addition here.

MissCreativeSpirit · #7 25-02-2019, 09:49 PM

It works to use, 'I'm safe at all times" but it's the manipulations and stresses of abuse from others,I'm not sure how to focus away from! I always wish to be treated with respect, and kindness and fairness everywhere I go everywhere.

JohnHermes · #8 26-02-2019, 12:53 AM

We all do. I get the same stuff. I personally ignore them as if the never existed. They become nothing by phantom ghosts. The less I give attention the easier for them to disappear

JohnHermes · #9 26-02-2019, 12:56 AM

If you wish for that to happen, then make a list of mantras that are simple. And meditate on them daily and to them a lot! As many times needed. Obviously not every second, but I would do them every hour on the hour. For 2 minutes just clear your mind. Keep doing that on the hour every hour. This is so it helps change your conscious programming so those "others" are like petty flies to you that doesn't bother you the least bit. Walk through hell with the will of heaven!

Shivani Devi · #10 21-03-2019, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by MissCreativeSpirit

Somewhere along the way when I was young, my family managed to teach me to manifest what I want thru crisis and great strife or drama. Yes I am from an alcoholic family.

I have tried my best to affirm that "all can be easy." But at times I still manifest like I am now, moving cuties in very short notice in great anxiety. Eagerly wanted this, but not in a rough and confusing way. I cannot be the only one that struggles with this!

Much of what I think of as "negative manifestation" is just karma with an incredibly retrospective delayed reaction...I can usually trace it back to an incident that occurred years ago... one I had totally forgotten about.

Here is a story...I recently learned this lesson "the hard way".

My car is due for registration this week.

The car is an older model and in previous years, it didn't need much work done to it to keep it roadworthy...all of that is starting to change.

In previous years, I got away with it for $200-$300 for inspections and repairs..this year, it was to be a lot different.

I got the quote back from the mechanic...

The car needed a new radiator as it had started to rust, the rear shock absorbers needed replacing, the brake pads needed replacing, the centre bearing was gone, the steering rack needed fixing, two of my tyres were showing signs of wear...there was about a dozen things...to fix this and get my roadworthiness certificate was going to cost $1,000 this year, or else the car would be written off for insurance and it would just be "scrap metal".

Now, I cannot afford another car and I basically only use my car to drive my mother around..

I had $500 on me, so I decided to hit my mother up for a $500 loan for the rest (which I could afford to pay her back in two months).

What followed was a crazy, immense drama...starting with a lecture...

"Dear God! you are SO irresponsible! How could you let things get this bad with your car? Why didn't you get it serviced regularly so these things don't happen? Why can't you go without dining out twice a week so you can put $20 a week aside to afford these things? Haven't you ever heard of a budget? If I loan you this money, it iis called financial enabling! You need professional help from a psychologist to manage your money disorder, I am not going to condone your bad behaviour by giving you a "money fix"..

Note...this was only the third time I had asked her to help me out financially in my life..my reply:

"Thank you, but I guess that puts an end to me being your taxi service pretty much indefiniitely then...you are just going to have to ask my brother (who works and doesnt have any spare time) I am so sorry it has come to this and I am so sorry for asking you..I guess I will just have to apply for a microfinance loan from my local Christian Church....you can always count on those Christians when you can't count on your family."..(she hates Christians with a passion)..

Then she says:
"I have just put the money in your account just now (she still had the number from two years ago when I asked her for a loan of $100), but NEVER ask me again or refusal may offend....but I am SO angry with you, I don't want to talk to you for a while..so don't phone me...when I am ready, I will phone YOU!

However, I realised she was correct...if I didn't have my coffee shop cake and coffee twice a week, if I used slightly less power, found a cheaper mobile plan etc, I could save $20 a week to put towards my car registration so scenes like this would never happen as my family does not have a single compassionate or loving bone in their body...probably where I inherited it from.

I am "attracting narcissists R us" and the trick is in becoming mentally, emotionally and financially independent FROM them, so they have absolutely nothing to hold/lord over you, thus keeping you a captive to their will.

Even though my mother was totally right, I was also annoyed at her...steam was coming out my ears...so I decided to hook up my desktop to my huge TV via VGA cable, put on Google Earth and take a virtual drive around Sulawesi for fun and one day, gonna hook up a steering wheel and pedals to my computer so I can drive around in foreign countries in style....