Are all women flakes?

[psychoslice]

Originally Posted by Saggi

It's a chocolate bar made by Cadbury's and it's scrummy!!!

Love and hugs

Jo

XxXx

He He, well all women must be flakes lol.

Originally Posted by immortal coil

I really can't relate to any of them. They play head games, they're hot and cold, and they never seem to know what they want. They show interest one minute and treat you like a leper then next.

I don't mean this post to sound disparaging, and I mean no offense to the women out there that are straight forward (god bless ya) and know what they want out of life, and a man.

Am I missing something here, or am I the one out of touch with reality?

Funny that's how I feel most men are.

[knightofalbion]

Try showing kindness, romance and understanding...

[Saggi]

Originally Posted by psychoslice

He He, well all women must be flakes lol.

Years ago there were adverts with a woman sitting in all sorts of wonderful places, in various stages of dress, sensually indulging,,

I think one was banned for being too raunchy,,,

And it was all based around this chocolate bar,,,

Love and hugs

Jo

XxXx

dontcha just love it when people post sweeping generalisations with a negative slant and then don't respond to the posts countering them.

[psychoslice]

Originally Posted by Saggi

Years ago there were adverts with a woman sitting in all sorts of wonderful places, in various stages of dress, sensually indulging,,

I think one was banned for being too raunchy,,,

And it was all based around this chocolate bar,,,

Love and hugs

Jo

XxXx

MMMMm, yes I think I understand, they are nice to nibble on lol.

[John Elessar]

immortal coil: believe me I sympathize, since for 30 straight bloody years that is pretty much all that I got. This past year I tried dating a co-worker, who kept standing me up with all sorts of lame excuses, despite the clear soul connection we shared, or, rather, because of the connection (most likely). I also was wildly attracted to a woman in college like that-she actually tried to control me like her little sex robot-except that she didn't even let me into her bed in the first place (that is how neurotic she was).

If I did hook up with someone, I simply wouldn't become attracted to them. And the one time I did meet someone where it finally seemed to be all working at long last, I got dumped 2 weeks in (it was all too "intense"). It was all extremely and profoundly puzzling for me. A quote from another member, and then my little spiel...

Originally Posted by Izzyga

It might be that you're just attracting the same type of women to you over and over again? This could be because an important lesson is there that you haven't learned yet.

There are probably many facets involved here, a number of which you are probably unconscious of, but some of which are in your awareness, if you decide to pay close attention to them. So everyone is unique, I declare. That said...

In my case it was very simple: deep down I had made a pre-life commitment to one person, and the gameplaying women I was constantly meeting were simply manifestations of my commitment (as in, they wouldn't let me get close because I didn't actually want them to, because I was saving myself for a singularly unique and incredible individual whom I would reunite with later in life-yes I had already met her as a teen).

Hope this helps, as in not all such seemingly dysfunctional encounters are due to old wounds of yours, but may indeed have a higher purpose. Your job is to keep digging until you uncover it.

[immortal coil]

Originally Posted by Sungirl

dontcha just love it when people post sweeping generalisations with a negative slant and then don't respond to the posts countering them.

Hold your horses. First of all, I made the post late at night, and didn't have a chance to see it through.

Second, while it may seem like a generalization, I guarantee it is not. I've never been the one to pigeonhole anyone.

Third the title was meant to draw onlookers. That's why I prefaced my post with an apology to the rest of the responsible, mature women out there.

[figaromelting]

Originally Posted by immortal coil

I really can't relate to any of them. They play head games, they're hot and cold, and they never seem to know what they want. They show interest one minute and treat you like a leper then next.

I don't mean this post to sound disparaging, and I mean no offense to the women out there that are straight forward (god bless ya) and know what they want out of life, and a man.

Am I missing something here, or am I the one out of touch with reality?

This can only be based on your own experience, it's important that you have a great relationship with yourself before you can meet someone who isn't a 'flake' in my opinion. There are always lessons you have to learn and every person teaches you something meaningful. There are always going to be people in life that you aren't going to feel a connection with but you have to always see the ways in which people are like you, not different from you.

Look inside, deeply.

You will gain a new perspective

[twinkle]

Are the woman you date only physically beautiful women? If so, maybe you should look more into the interior than exterior. But if you are young in your 20s, some women that age do not know what they want, yet.