suicide

[ribbons of color]

Needing direction:

Hi all,
my son's friend hung himself about three yrs. ago. My son had a dream, and in his dream, he woke up in this gray area, no plant life, no ground, no sky, no nothing, just gray, then all of a sudden he was walking down the drive way in the neighborhood where he grew up, and all of a sudden this friend that hung himself was there, My son asked him how he was doing, friend replied, you know I'm dead right, I been dead for three yrs., my son replied yes I know, what have you been doing all this time, friend said just walking around, my son asked for three years you have just been walking around?, friend said yes, my son asked what do you just think about where you want to go and you are there, friend said yes, they continued to walk to my sons childhood home, my son said to friend, I have to run in my house and get something, I'll be right out, his friend waited outside the house, but when my son was going back out to talk with his friend he woke up. My son also mentioned to me his friends eyes, and outer area were all black. So my question is, is this poor soul just roaming around lost, and can't find his way home, or is this something else, and can we help him go home, even though he did not ask to go there. Thank you.

[Native spirit]

This sounds to me this is something your son imagines death by any other form other than natural causes, is like i can assure you your sons friend would have gone into healing as soon as he passed.
does your son having a feeling of guilt over his friends death?. this could be one reason for him to dream this.

Namaste

[Pennee]

Originally Posted by Native spirit

This sounds to me this is something your son imagines death by any other form other than natural causes, is like i can assure you your sons friend would have gone into healing as soon as he passed.
does your son having a feeling of guilt over his friends death?. this could be one reason for him to dream this.

Namaste

There are some beautiful books that describe the spiritual healing that occurs to the soul after someone takes their life. They are really worth reading, and sharing with others. I think we all know of someone who have left the Earth in this way and they are loved even on the other side. God does not desert you or punish you, as often we are taught that he does. God is love.

[ribbons of color]

I am sure he had guilt feelings over his death, just as we all do when something like this happens, like, why did I not see this coming, why did I not hang out with him that day, maybe I could have saved him, maybe if I only..., you get the picture. This person had a very troubled life, always felt he didn't measure up, he was not good enough, this is why I worry he carried this into the afterlife, and thinks this is all there is, I have no experience about this, and just want to help if this is what I feel it is, thank you so much for responding.

[linen53]

Your son's friend is exactly where he wants to be. You said yourself you son told him he only had to think of a place to be and he would be there which the young man acknowledged.

Sometimes we just want to be alone to think. 3 years? Time does not matter on the other side. I was in a similar place for much, much longer in between lives once.

[ribbons of color]

No, my son never told him, my son asked him, do you just think of where you want to go and you just go, and his friend acknowledged, yes. So you feel he wants to be where he is, and maybe ponder his previous lifetime on earth, I never thought of that, its just the black eyes that made me think, maybe he feels he is not worthy to move on, thank you so much for you input, good to know.

[linen53]

Ask, tell, what's the difference. The young man acknowledges that he knows he can change his location any time he wants according to your original post.

Black eyes mean he doesn't want to see. His choice. Don't read to much into the appearance of it. It's symbolic for how he feels.

He'll move on when he's ready. He probably has some serious thinking to do about not only this last incarnation but the combined incarnations and he has some problems to solve and is looking into a different plan to get where he wants to go in his next incarnation.

The frustration I felt when I was in a similar situation was palpable. I just couldn't seem to get to where I needed to be. I kept side-stepping the problems incarnation after incarnation. In this incarnation I am currently in, I did manage to conquer those mountains because of devising a plan before I was born. A life-plan that would work for me.

But when I figured out a plan, I was outta there so fast it would have made your head spin.

[ribbons of color]

thank you so much for helping me see the true meaning of this visit, the eye thing is what had me a little worried, but now that you explained it, it make good sense to me. Thank you for sharing much about yourself and your situation, Have a great weekend.
Ribbons

[BlareCrush1991]

I'm new here sad to read this. The best thing to do is always pray for his soul to be safe and at least put some candle to guide his soul to the right path as it may help him find his way back him.

[revolver]

For me personally when your dead your dead, there is nothing more to it, suicide or not, there is no one to suffer after death.