I want out--if the connection can't be cut, can it be buried?

[Awakened Queen]

Originally Posted by TXGemini

taurusnsane - you know what I mean. This *me* did not choose this. That *me* probably didn't know it was going to be this complicated. And if she did, this *me* would love to kick *her* butt.

But I read somewhere if your twin rejects you that the universe will supply you with someone more compatible. Why hasn't that happened? I mean he says his life is perfect--I'm sure the soundtrack for The Sound of Music plays he his head all the time. I'm surprised he doesn't break out dancing like Fred Astaire one of these days.

So if he has no problems and I'm the one that's a mess (his version)why doesn't the universe attach me to someone who can work with me and not emotionally torture me?

Because you won't meet somebody until you fix yourself. If you're a mess, it's time to work on yourself. This is what this connection is helping you with, whether you realize it or not. It is helping you work out your issues regarding yourself and relationships. It's not really about him, or your connection to him, it's about you. This man you feel so connected to is just a mirror for you. If you don't look within and do the work, you will meet another person who mirrors that. And once again, you will be unhappy. Focus on making yourself into the person you wish to attract. Write out a list of qualities you want in a romantic partner, then read the list. Look to see if you would be a match for this man on paper. See how far you are from it.

[TXGemini]

Originally Posted by Awakened Queen

Because you won't meet somebody until you fix yourself. If you're a mess, it's time to work on yourself. This is what this connection is helping you with, whether you realize it or not. It is helping you work out your issues regarding yourself and relationships. It's not really about him, or your connection to him, it's about you. This man you feel so connected to is just a mirror for you. If you don't look within and do the work, you will meet another person who mirrors that. And once again, you will be unhappy. Focus on making yourself into the person you wish to attract. Write out a list of qualities you want in a romantic partner, then read the list. Look to see if you would be a match for this man on paper. See how far you are from it.

AQ - Well, I don't I need to go down that road with him anyway and that may be the reason things got so discombobulated. I finally got to connect with my reader and she said that he and I are soulmates but not TFs--a karmic friendship from a past life. And we probably got on each other's nerves in the past life as well. That's the reason I kept saying I never felt a romantic feeling for him and every time I practiced any TF or soulmate rituals things got confusing for me.

She said my problem is to pull myself out of all these feelings that I've dreaded up and get back into my head--to get focused, put my head before my heart, be decisive, and show some clarity. That I've become imbalanced. As a Gemini I cannot focus too much on the heart which I've been doing--I need to do more clear thinking and level headed.

Stop the meditating, just concentrate on building up my work and home lives.

She said I was on the right path and got sidetracked by my co-worker. I need to get back on my path of being logical and building my foundation because my romantic soulmate is coming very shortly (next few months) and things will start to move very fast.

But I've created problems through the illusions of trying to solve the connection between me and the coworker--which isn't a problem either--it's just a karmic connection--he will get on my nerves sometimes--just deal with it .