Dear TheDivineOne
Just to clarify one very important thing Spirits don’t have sex as we know, gender is related to reproduction laws to perpetuate our species. Spirits don’t get pregnant. Only God can creates us spirits!
3 simple questions from The Book of Spirits (
www.ssbaltimore.org/PDF/Spirits.pdf) :
200. Have spirits sex?
“Not as you understand sex; for sex, in that sense, depends on the corporeal organisation. Love and sympathy exist among them, but founded on similarity of sentiments."
201. Can a spirit, who has animated the body of a man, animate the body of a woman in a new existence, and vice versa ?
"Yes; the same spirits animate men and women."
202. Does a spirit, when existing in the spirit-world, prefer to be incarnated as a man or as a woman?
"That is a point in regard to which a spirit is indifferent, and which is always decided in view of the trials which he has to undergo in his new corporeal life."
Spirits incarnate themselves as men or as women, because they are of no sex and, as it is necessary for them to develop themselves in every direction, both sexes. as well as every variety of social position. furnish them with special trials and duties, and with the opportunity of acquiring experience. A spirit who had always incarnated itself as a man would be only known by men, and vice versa.
Inverted reincarnation as we called has 2 different reasons:
First is a missionary reincarnation where family, marriage, sex will divert from main purpose of his life, or as we called re-incarnatory plan (everyone has his own re-incarnatory plan)
Second cause are trials or expiations were you must redeem from past mistakes linked to sex abuse and other situations like destroy a home due to sex abuse, body abuse, profligacy etc…
We called re-incarnatory plan because is just a plan, using your free will you can accomplish it or abandom it.
Difference between trial or expiation basically depends on how you accept the suffering and dificulties you experience or you get revolted or anger with your situation and dont accept it.
At the end you "come" in inverted re-incarnation to prevent you to repeat the same mistakes you made in the past that ruin you
Good bless you and give you strength to accomplish your reincarnatory plan!