Hi guys, I posted yesterday here a question about this guy I went on a first date and about him having a (very specific) tattoo. I liked him and decided to go on a second date with him.
There was just another thing about him that I would like to ask your opinion.
On our date, there were several questions I asked him that he avoided/hold back on responding.
For example, he was married for 8 years and doesn't have children, so I asked him why he never had children, and the only thing he said was something like "yes I never had children", which basically tells you nothing.
I also asked him about the meaning of that tattoo, and he said he just likes it.
I want to go on a second date, but this made me feel uncomfortable and I feel like I want to tell him I felt that and ask why he was holding back, if it's because he feels it's too soon to tell me certain things or is it just the way he is?
Do you think I should be open and direct and ask him about it before the next date? I think I should tell him that I do like him but feel is difficult to know someone when they avoid answering certain questions.
Am I being too direct after only a first date? But it is something that I would like to know before going on a second one.
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