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Old 23-11-2018, 11:10 PM
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Met two guys and am confused

Hi, so I recently met two guys - but there is one I want to be with for sure and have picked in a way. However, the other one comes into my mind every so often and the thought of our interactions makes me smile. He, however, at least from my perspective, doesn't appreciate me for who I am the way the guy I want to be with for sure does. Plus, I just think the guy I want to be with for sure is a better fit for me - he amplifies what I feel and I think we just meld together you know?

So what does it mean that the other one creeps into my mind sometimes? Is anyone familiar with this feeling? Having multiple guys be interested in me is so new to me. Thanks :)
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Old 24-11-2018, 08:34 PM
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Well. It is too early in the courtship to really determine.
Just keep dating them until you know.
Listen to what you want, and not what you need.
Let both of them know who you are and what you want in a relationship.
Then observe which one appreciates you and tries to deliver what you want.

Overall, the researches done on successful long term marriages consistently indicate that it is the husband's personality and attitude that determine the successful marriage, not wife's.
Those men in long and successful marriages share a common/shared attitude about their wives/marriages.
Those men in successful long term marriages are accepting, easy going, and positive about their wives' wishes, and needs, and influences. - When compare to the other men with failed marriages.
Those men also have more relaxing personality than those with failed marriages.

This means that you need to find a man who absolutely, accepts, adores and loves you unconditionally first. Then you need to make sure that he willingly wants your wants/needs above his.

So, if the guy keeps talking about what he wants and his feeling w/o asking about what you want, dump him. His neediness will make him to be a selfish husband. He is a waste of your time.
Find a guy who is happy and takes care of himself - both mentally, spiritually, and physically (+ Financially responsible since a successful marriage needs it). If he can not even take care of himself, he certainly can not take care of you or your future children.
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