Where are they?

[lomax]

Originally Posted by Kendaru

Ah, but who are you to decide who is deserving of love? Who are you to decide who is in need or who is deserving? Be wary, friend, for these are the traps of the ego.

We are each challenged to learn unconditional love - and it is much harder to achieve than it sounds, especially these days. Some days, the best we can do is stand our ground and not let negativity get the better of us - and that alone can be good enough. We each hold a torch to stave off the darkness. When darkness comes for us, it is not necessary to overpower it, but simply to keep the flame burning. Believe that things will turn around, and they will, maybe not as soon as we'd like but they will.

Come what may, it'll be okay :)

And who is the one who decides what i have to learn and what not?
If i am an egoist,then he's worst.
Those who teach suffering,should know very well what is it,before decide it for others.

That's my view.

[Kendaru]

I won't lie, I struggle with this too. I find myself wondering why, of all methods, would a life of pain be the preferred method. Why, despite asking for it to stop, does it continue. Is it morally right to put someone through this with vague promises of 'it will get better,' as though the relief of it eventually being over somehow justifies the means. There is a big problem with this, and I don't have an answer for it either.

One thing that is certain is that we do have some control in how we respond to this problem. Directly working against ourselves is likely not the most productive answer. I choose to improve myself in spite of whatever machinations are at play - if, in the end, I can look back and say 'despite all you've done to me, you couldn't stop me from becoming the best badass I can be,' then that to me is the best success I can hope for.