I Finally Did It! (I hope he will call?)

[twinkle]

Do you think it is possible he gets your hints and backs out at the last minute because he feels nervous?

Originally Posted by twinkle

Do you think it is possible he gets your hints and backs out at the last minute because he feels nervous?

I think this is very possible. But the night before last, I sent him a text message telling him how I felt about him, in a classy, professional and direct--but not too direct way. I asked him yesterday if he got the message (as he was behaving like normal) and he told me that he did). So, now I am quite sure he knows what I want. Now, it's just a matter of sitting back and letting things unfold naturally. It was very scary, but it definitely was a load off my chest---especially since it didn't turn him off. I can breathe a little easier now.

I'm not posting what I texted him, as it is my way of guarding my heart from any negativity. As the one guy said on one of these pages stated, I do have to take some personal responsibility for how I go about this without getting advice on every little thing I do. Good advice.

[Belle]

Fire7, that is great progress. Personal responsibility - it may feel a little scary but it is your life, your power and you are wise to guard yourself a little.

[twinkle]

Now, I believe it is best to get it out in the open early on because the other person might look elsewhere if your interest is unknown.