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Old 19-06-2014, 06:29 PM
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It seems he is very angry at me? But you could be right in he is angry at himself, never looked at it that way?

All i've ever wanted is to be happy with him and there are always so many everyday obstacles in our way? Seems we have a "clash of personalities" but that connection which stops us both moving on.....why?
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Old 19-06-2014, 06:32 PM
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Let my son see him every weekend and am fairly amicable with him in doing so, its not my sons fault? When I seen him today he looked terrible, lost loads of weight and gaunt looking? He usually goes like this when he is unhappy? Really feel for him...

Can anyone tell me anything about what my future holds?
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Old 19-06-2014, 06:34 PM
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Badger and Rob Thank you for your response
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Old 19-06-2014, 06:36 PM
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Badger has raised some very valuable points here... The one that stands out for me, is the anger issue, for such can be used to cover any number of other emotions and principles, that a person has no satisfactory answers to or for... So they put on this angry front to make the person with whom they've an issue or query; stand their distance: often remaining in silence...

Englishrosie... I can appreciate that not everyone will be aware of that which I mentioned and I apologize if it has confused you in any way...
Overall, the subject of reincarnation and spiritual contracts, can be considered as an in-depth subject and will need a certain amount of clarification, not really suited to this topic (unless already appreciated) but might make for interesting discussion in a topic of it's own... I will bear that in mind...

For the time being, I would suggest that you are doing nothing out of hand and ~ if you can muster the patience ~ let that which is taking place, run its course... I feel sure that as events open out, you will begin to get a clearer picture as to which direction to move in, or whether you simply need to stand your ground...

Meanwhile, be at peace with all you do and think....

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Old 19-06-2014, 06:49 PM
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Can anyone tell me what the future holds for me and my beautiful son? I have had a really horrific time this last year..... Lost my business, Partner, lot of debt incurred, possibly my house (not sure as yet, holding on " tooth and nail" so to speak?) had to go on state benefits for the first time in my life, Health problems?

Things Seems to be moving very slow indeed and not getting any better? Ive always been a very strong, educated, hard working and determined woman but unfortunately last year was so, so hard for me and my son, I just collapsed unfortunately?
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Old 19-06-2014, 07:22 PM
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Lost my business, Partner, lot of debt incurred, possibly my house (not sure as yet, holding on " tooth and nail" so to speak?) had to go on state benefits for the first time in my life, Health problems?

I'm sorry to hear this. Sincerely, I've seen this happen to people close to me, and some of it has happened to me too, so I understand some of the hard time you're having.

I can't predict the future, but I know that health problems are certainly an inevitable effect of all the other stuff, and quite possible, vicious circle, health problems would contribute to all these problems by sapping your energy.

I hope you don't mind me offering an opinion, and remembering that what is right for one may not be right for another, but I think this is all the more reason to stand firm against your chap. You have enough on your plate and need to 'tighten your budget' of energy, i.e. prioritise not only your money and time, but your mental energy too. I'm sure you know this if you are normally focused as you say you are.

When you say you might be losing your house, I presume you mean you are struggling (or failing) to keep up mortgage repayments and face repossession? I'm sure you've had proper advice, but if you haven't, please get some asap. I believe that when its the family home and kids are involved, you have to fall 12 months in arrears before the courts will consider issuing a repossession order. Again, please, please get proper advice, but I believe that if you can show that you tried to reach an agreement with the mortgage lender, it will go in your favour when the court is deciding whether or not to grant the repossession order. Also, not sure if this is still the case, but a few years ago it was the case that if you found yourself on benefits, you could claim to have the mortgage interest paid directly. This combined with a chat with the lender to negotiate temporary terms could stave off the repo proceedings.

If its any reassurance, kids are pretty resilient little things. Sometimes I think we, as parents, worry more than we need to. What's most important to your son is that YOU are ok and with him. No matter what happens, you must give priority to yourself. If you have to let some material stuff go because hanging on is literally tearing you apart, then let it go. Chances are you can negotiate a temporary break from your mortgage commitments and save your house, but even if you can't, while it would result in short term upheaval and upset, you and your son will not be separated and you'll get through it as long as you look after yourself first (and your son of course).

Sorry I can't offer more info than I'm sure you already know. I'm wishing for a bit of luck for you. Oh, and no matter happens, you're never on your own.
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Old 19-06-2014, 07:24 PM
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Can anyone tell me what the future holds for me and my beautiful son?

Unfortunately no, I'm sorry, nobody can tell you what your future holds. There are far too many variables and choices in life that weigh into our future. I do wish you the best, however, I empathize with you in this time of pain and uncertainty. What I can say is that things do change, and when life is clearing house, it's usually to usher in new and better things and situations. Bless. <3
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