Even Bad People Are Good.

[CrystalSong]

Originally Posted by Sarian

Gosh, that was a rambling mess. Sorry!

Many of us have been down this unfortunate road in life. It doesn't have to break us, and in fact only will if we allow it too.
20 years away from the event and it hardly ever occurs to us anymore.
30 years away and it's so distant it's like it happened to someone else.

[Native spirit]

No one is born bad everyone has the ability to be good and bad,it is what you do when you are in your dark days that stays with you. and that is what people remember you for


Namaste

[Light Seeker]

In this world..good and bad seem to be user defined...just sayin.

[MIND POWER]

Naivety- can sometimes endorse or co-operate with evil.

So yes! i understand the notion (if that's the correct word) that.....(Even bad people are good), but lets not be so naive sometimes! there is some good actors out there, who will do a complete job on naive people! both physiologically, emotionally and spirituality.

Sometimes people are just bad, they are more polarized towards bad things or whatever. And this attitude, that i sometimes see in the new age circles! of just forgiving everybody (even if they are not sorry, or fully understand emotionally the pain they have caused!) on the surface ladies and gentlemen this looks all loving and innocent!

But when you step back, from a high position! and see what this sweet all forgiving attitude actually does!

(It is completely and utterly destructive, and a massive reason why bad, negativity or injustices can thrive)......

But yes i understand the concept behind the thread, but remember this...

(In life you can make choices, if i wanted to punch somebody in the face..? then its my choice! yes somebody could irritate me, but ultimately its my choice! and it is the same with everything! everything! in life.......you make a choice and then consequences happen! very simple)......but i do understand that sometimes in life, people are forced into making bad choices! this could because of the environment! but even still its a choice. And i know that making choices is not always easy when your life is on the line maybe, but when its not on the line..? that's when i have a massive problem with you.

If some people's choices are to rationalize or bend for over all the injustices in the world or backward behavior (And just blindly forgive!) whether you are man or women, if this is your way of spiritual enlightenment! you better check yourself!

And if you are religious and you believe in the story of Jesus!

Understand that the man was not passive, he was not ignorant to bad things. The man stood up, and stood against it! and did not rationalize it........that's what a hero and every man and women should be.

So lets not play this sweet game now, for me..? that's not my game! i am a loving man, i have got a heart! make no doubt it! it is functioning and it is awake....

But it does not come cheaply........

Originally Posted by Sarian

Granted I had my struggles with depression for a time, I chose to daily rise up against it..My brother chose to daily be victim and blame others for everything when he had the power all along to rise up.

I could hate those that abuse me, but I felt pity. I didn't want an eye for an eye or that sort of thing. I still feel 'rage' about some things I see and read so I still have a road to travel, but I see things differently as I age.

It's times like these when we begin to realise so much about ourselves, this is our Journey to Self. I made the choice to not be like him, he wasn't the role model I needed for my Life and that choice carried on through the generations. The victim mentality could have remained but what happened made me a better person and some of the things I experienced became 'tools'. I learned about forgiveness and empathy not 'bad karma' and looking back there was so much Spirituality in what happened. I won't find any answers in this Life but I will in the next. The rage and anger has gone and hate was something I chose not to fill my heart with.

Your story isn't rambling, it's like looking in a mirror for me and sometimes the heart has its own flow.

[Jared.L]

Bad and Good are limited concepts of limited thinking. Nothing is pure white or black.

[intj123]

Originally Posted by Jared.L

Bad and Good are limited concepts of limited thinking. Nothing is pure white or black.

Yes, it's pretty subjective.

I'm good at being bad though, muhaha.