The only one love: Your Mother

[Venom4]

1. Her unconditional love for you.

There might be times when she doesn’t like you all that much, but she’ll always love you.

No matter what you do, how many times you mess up, or how many bad decisions you make, your mom will still love you.

2. Her support.

She’s always there for you when you need her.

She might not support all of your decisions, but she’ll always support you.

She’s a shoulder to cry on, and the one person whose opinion you always rush to ask when you’ve got a dilemma.

3. Her strength.

Your mom had to be pretty damn strong just to get through giving birth, but since then she’s had to be strong every day.

She has to be strong for herself, but she’s also strong for you.

You know she’s a pillar of strength that you can always lean on for support.

4. Her sense of humor.

She can always make you laugh.

Your sense of humor has partly been molded by hers, and you’ve got family in-jokes that have been going on for years.

5. Her excitement for you.

When you’ve had good news, who’s the first person you want to call?

Even if your partner is at the top of your list, your mother always leaps to your mind when you’ve got something good to share, or you’ve achieved something.

You know she’ll be delighted for you, and incredibly proud.

6. Her eccentricities.

She’s pretty kooky and quirky.

There’s no one in this world quite like her. She does things you can’t quite explain, and neither can she.

She’s unique, and has a unique way of looking at life.

7. Her vulnerability.

Although it might sometimes seem like it, she’s not perfect, and she’s got her own worries and insecurities.

But you love her for them.

8. Her independence.

When you were a kid, it probably seemed to you like you were the entire reason for her existence.

But as you’ve grown up, you’ve realized that, as well as being a mother, she’s her own person, and has a life outside of you.

There are many points that we have not touched upon
In the end, I want to seal my words with a will
Please take care of the mother because even if we try to, we will not compensate her for what she deserves ...

[Ziusudra]

Hmmm..
It sounds like your mom was a great mother with a natural nurturing instinct.
You are lucky.

Not every mother is like yours.
Our society puts lots of pressure on "mothers", just because these females happened to gave a birth.
Not every female who happened to become a mother meets these "pedestal" characteristics of motherhood.

In today's world, there are still many females who are pressured to become a mother by the societal expectations. In addition, women's reproductive rights are still constantly challenged and used as a political positioning. - not to mention the negative effect of religious ideology on women's reproductive choices.

And when a woman encounters an unwanted pregnancy, the religious guilt and social shames are placed on her and negatively affect her reproductive decision.

Just like not every man wants to become a father nor has the characteristics to be a good father.... the same goes for women as well.

[Ziusudra]

Dup dup dup

Nice analogy.

Thanks.