Hello Seachild, I was wondering how long you have been in this relationship?
What was it like in the beginning?
who is the runner and who is the chaser?
how long can you be together without having to separate?
Can you see anything that is bothering you being mirrored back to you?
for example can you see the things bothering you in a pattern of your past or experiences?
just wondering to get a better picture.
QTPie was correct in what was said... it is easy to get caught up in the TF experience and believe that what we need is in other person, when what we are supposed to see (apparently) is already within us.
My TF and I started off with a month of pure magic, pure bliss, then our egos got caught up in it and things started turning south... we can't be together more than a week or two before i start running.
Our recent separation is 2 days old but this time it is different.. I surrendered to GOD (the Universe) to guide me, to find myself and my connection back to the source.
I still send love to her and still love her, but even with all the signs and synchronicities that keep bringing us back. we just have so much karma to work on, it seems like our situations keep us apart and bring us together.
I pray that you find what you are looking for within yourself.
Everytime we separated before we were both so very miserable, feeling empty, sad, frustrated and hurt..
This time since I gave up all of the control to GOD and the Universe.. I am feeling good about this.. We both had a bad argument and told each other that this was the last time (again) and we never want to hear from each other again.. ego time....
I hope you get back to me, I would love to hear the whole story..