If you're meant to be with someone or alone.

[girlsearching]

Originally Posted by Fenetre

Sometimes I do believe I am meant to be alone (romantically speaking). All "relationships" I have had either never went off the ground or went off the ground and then crashed and burned!

I used to think there was something wrong with me, until I realized there wasn't. The Universe is how it is meant to be, exactly how it is meant to be, at all times. I get that now. So at this time I am meant to not have a romantic partner. I trust the universe because it has never led me astray. Maybe one day the universe will decide it is time for me to have a romantic partner. If not, that's ok too.

So, I hope my answer was of some use, lol. Basically, my response would be to trust the universe and the universe (aka God) will determine what's best for you.

@ Fenetre your response was sure helpful to me, I'm 21 and I never really had a relationship. I just don't approach guys especially if I'm interested with them. I often wonder if it's me, most of my cousins and friends are always posting on social media sites such as Facebook how their in a relationship,and I'm like so I went to work today...... I mean I don't necessarily need a Boyfriend but sometimes I feel as if I'm missing out. But I don't want to rush into one , you're right in due time the Universe will have someone for that person.

[LillyBelle]

I've always believed in three main things in life:
1. If I was meant to have someone they would be sent to me
2. There is someone out there for everyone
3. If it is meant to be,it will be

[girlsearching]

Originally Posted by LillyBelle

I've always believed in three main things in life:
1. If I was meant to have someone they would be sent to me
2. There is someone out there for everyone
3. If it is meant to be,it will be

@LillyBelle I co-sign .

[Robinski78]

I understand your concerns, but do you consider all old men to be creepy? And how exactly, might the creepiness manifest itself...

There may be one soul amongst those you've encountered, that had some news for you: even an answer to you envisaged difficulties...

Make sure you're not missing out on a golden opportunity!!! Some only visit you once in a lifetime...

Just the way I see it...

It's random, according to your nature, according to how things would be, given the circumstances. Your nature will make you behave like you do. And this in turn will bring the outcome that will come. Circumstances will also affect your life in the way that they will. All things just are. They just act out or play out what they are.

You can never know if you're meant to be alone. I mean what if you meet someone when you're 30? Not all people fit each other well. And for some people, only a few match up with them. And it's really not easy to run into those "a few" matchable ones. So it's not a matter of having to be alone. It's just sometimes too hard to run into your particular match. Sometimes circumstances (randomly) are just against you.