Article struck a chord. Don't like it a bit.

Originally Posted by Kiwigirl11

I sooo agree with this ,i used to go mad reading hundreds of different articles over and over ,just trying to make some sense to this ,but all it did was make me more confused

Yes well... there is definitively a "twindustry" flourishing out there. It is hard to be a specialist on that sort of spiritual stuff, there is so much that is not meant to be understood, but experienced. And trust me, I am always trying to dig deep and understand about all the experiences I face, and even if I still research and read, I have surrendered the most part so I know I will only understand it 100% when I am called back to the source

And I learnt the hard way ( cause I did go to psychics and stuff ) that no matter what, you have to trust your own process and your own experience and you are writing your own future day by day. The right advice, the right healing, the right people will point you in the directions you need to go, but I would never again go as far as to put my all on a theory / person /psychic and consider it absolute thruth, cause what may have been true last month, may not be true weeks later.

Confusing !!

I don't think it has to be a counterfeit twin in order to make the points listed valid--if you are approaching this union with unhealthy needs and expectations then what you will get will be unhealthy, whether the person is your twin or not.

No, no one can take away your truth and no one is an expert! But at times we do end up getting so sucked into the pain and cycles that we can forget what our truth really is.

[psychoslice]

I don't buy the TF concept at all lol.

You really don't need anyone's list to validate or invalidate your connection. You can know by two ways. One, if this is the most powerful connection you've ever had, thats a strong indication, and two, if the feelings don't fade over time (years), then that's a connection you want to pay attention to.

[Teal]

My thought is quit reading the garbage. You all know there are two sides to a coin. So of course the "experts" have two sides to tf. real./fake. what ever. Why are you allowing a complete stranger dictate your experience? There are good information out there. That can aid you if need.

]YOU are the expert in your own path of connections. Remember you wrote your path.

I love springs thoughts,

You really don't need anyone's list to validate or invalidate your list. You can know by two ways. One, if this is the most powerful connection you've ever had, thats a strong indication, and two, if the feelings don't fade over time (years), then that's a connection you want to pay attention to.

[Ascension]

I recently heard this : Impulsv

...And they finally in a 'GENTLE KISS' forgot everything .

[Botticella22]

Thanks for quoting, Sesheta!

I tried my best to try and put it into the best of words of how I've seen TF relationships to be so trying, yet so beautiful and rewarding.

Originally Posted by sesheta

It's [TF relationships] a lot more challenging in some aspects than any "normal" relationship, I think. A lot of trials and tribulations. Maybe, like "going through the fire"(?), so that the challenges make you both evolve and grow to being better balanced, or so.


*** This is absolutely perfectly true! I agree.... *****