Changing your subconscious identity

[iamthat]

Some people find the NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) approach to be useful.

e.g. take the visual image of the guy (yourself) who never gets what he wants and cannot afford to buy these things. Make that image fade to grey and become smaller - in other words, it becomes less dominant. Move it to the left of your visual field, because most people's visual timeline has the past on the left and the future on the right.

Then create a new visual image of yourself as the guy who always get what he wants and has the money to pay for it. Have this image coming in from the right (your future) to fill your field of vision. Ramp up the colours so this image is large and bright and vivid. Maybe add sound effects such as a loud fanfare.

The idea is that the your old self-image becomes small and insignificant while your new self-image becomes large and dominant.

One further point - people tend to be visual, auditory and kinesthetic, but usually one will dominate. Visual people tend to learn best through seeing. Auditory people learn best through hearing. Kinesthetic people learn best through feeling or sensation - ie through actually doing something.

The above example I gave was obviously visual, but if you are maybe more kinesthetic then do something similar but working with feelings and sensations. So tone down the old feelings of inadequacy or lack of motivation and move them to the left while bringing in new feelings of achievement and success from the right, exaggerating those feelings.

Some people report very good results using NLP.

Peace

[Dather12]

Originally Posted by 1337_d00d

So I notice that lying dormant in my subconscious is this guy who cannot afford anything and will never get what he wants. It is not so much the thoughts but the feelings I get whenever I am presented with anything I would like to have, my immediate, emotional reaction is that I will never get it and will never be able to afford it, if we are talking about things. I think this might be the source of my lack of motivation, since I lack the conviction of actually achieving or ever getting anything worthwile. I had a meager upbringing and can't remember ever getting anything I really wanted from my parents, so maybe this is a feeling that has persisted since then.

I gotta say trying to change my beliefs revolving this issue feels like an uphill battle. Somehow I have to dethrone this guy altogether and not simply fight my beliefs against his. Any ideas?

He's right. You will never "get" it. Even if you obtained it, it won't make you happy.

[Miss Hepburn]

Gee, I hesitated posting because even tho i feel like the master of changing the subconscious mind, ha ...
that's just 'me' ...how can i expect anyone else to do what I did or do?

I can just put in my 2 cents.
You must BELIEVE differently, in your gut you must KNOW whatever ever it is.
I was like many - codependent, weak, insecure, angry under the surface ---whatever, parents do to us.

Then, I was revealed the 'truth'....I'm not my personality, gender, name or past. I am a loved child, extension of the Creator of All. Period.
Part and parcel of 'Him'. Given extraordinary powers untapped.
Deserving of all there is in this life and beyond.

I saw like Barbra Streisand On A Clear Day ---all became crystal clear -
the nonsense compared to the truth...was wonderful.

So my subconscious changed to know who I was...ya gotta know who you are...powerful, confident - a creator
and free to be whatever you want.
Me? I wanna be happy all the time -forget the nonsense...and I do, very successfully.

Cuz I know who I am and my subconscious mind is now imprinted with this new clarity....has been for over a decade now.