"Don't go into the Light" and Scared of Death..

[AngelBirds74]

Hi,

I haven't posted before, despite joining a while ago.

My mum died at the end of November and like all my other family members who have died over the years (Some very close ones too), I have never had any signs from them that they are still around.

I am very scared about death and what comes after and this has been playing on my mind, especially because I have had no signs of an afterlife from my passed over family members and I really worry that either something bad happens or we get recycled and our souls get trapped or something. I also read this article today called 'Death and the Tunnel of Light: The Final Grand Trick', which says that you should never go into the light because it is a trap (I can't post a link to the article because I haven't made enough posts yet, but it is a 'Wake up World' article) and this didn't help allay my fears in the slightest, as we are always told to go into the light when we die.

So, I am very scared of death, but mainly what comes after, not quite so much the death itself, unless it's particularly horrible of course!

[Clover]

Hello AngelBirds74,

Welcome to the forum, my deepest condolences on the passing of your mother.
We have a great section on Death & The AfterLife that you may want to read or feel free to post. Also, Past life and reincarnation is another area. We have plenty of like minded individuals that I am sure will be able to ease your concerns,

Hope your enjoy stay with us.

CLover

[SeekerOfKnowledge]

Dear AngelBirds,

first: a warm welcome.

I am very sorry for your loss.

The article you mention, I found and read it.
Just another theory of many. And it does not sound too bad to me. It says that you reincarnate when you go into the light. And that you can break the circle of reincarnation by not going into the light.

Maybe you wish to discuss that article and your fear in one of the two sections Clover mentioned?

You are not alone.

[AngelBirds74]

Thank you Clover, I will re-post in the relevant section.

Thank you too for the reply SeekerOfKnowledge. Ok, so if we don't go into the light, we don't have to reincarnate? That sounds good to me, as I don't really want to come back and have another lifetime on Earth, even though it's such a beautiful planet and life can be so wonderful at times.

[Nephele]

Welcome, AngelBirds74!

My condolences to you on the loss of your mom. It's understandable to be fixated on death after the loss of someone close to you. I'm sending you lots of positive energy, and hope you'll be able to come to terms with your fears soon.

In the meantime, have some anagram aliases:

Ruby Evensong Starfield
Devyn Bluestar Firesong
Bryndis Genovefa Lustre
Delfina Betrys Sungrove
Betsy Sungold Ravenfire
= AngelBirds Seventy-four

Try to focus on the beauty in the world and imagine how your anagram names relate to it. See yourself in your names. It may help to bring you some calming peace.

[Chrysalis]

Hi AngelBirds74 and welcome to SF!

[shoni7510]

Hello AngelBirds74 and welcome to spiritual forums and I hope you will enjoy it here.

[AngelBirds74]

Originally Posted by Nephele

Welcome, AngelBirds74!

My condolences to you on the loss of your mom. It's understandable to be fixated on death after the loss of someone close to you. I'm sending you lots of positive energy, and hope you'll be able to come to terms with your fears soon.

In the meantime, have some anagram aliases:

Ruby Evensong Starfield
Devyn Bluestar Firesong
Bryndis Genovefa Lustre
Delfina Betrys Sungrove
Betsy Sungold Ravenfire
= AngelBirds Seventy-four

Try to focus on the beauty in the world and imagine how your anagram names relate to it. See yourself in your names. It may help to bring you some calming peace.

Thank you Nephele, those anagram names are beautiful and you are very clever the way you worked them out!!

[moonsister22]

We are all energy beings and energy can't be destroyed so something does remain. However, most of the time it's difficult to pick up on the energy and we seem to be focused on the movie version of "coming back". Actually, I think that energy will lead us to the right place at the right time rather than write us a spirit letter telling us what to do and not to do. If we pass without anything else being left, well that's not frightening, just a bit annoying that we went through all the work and effort to be dumped over the edge on the other side. For me at least, it's rather comforting that I don't have to sit around listening to all my relatives telling me what to do and how to do it.