Is he the one ?

[PreciousW]

Originally Posted by Akira

I would always say, no to looking for your twin flame and yes to letting the Universe allow you to receive through flow, rather than want and need.

By the way thank you for your response - I am with Ziusudra - no matter how many regressions you have you may not be able to reconcile this. You might have less of a bank balance though! This guy might even be a Karmic soulmate. Be careful what you wish for. Of course he may also be your twin, however this will only be so if you let it happen naturally.

Yes, want is probably not right word :). I am with letting it take it course since neither one of us is looking at stepping out of our marriages.

I also wonder....since we met all those years back when we had no clue what TFs are...and split over whatever reasons, but got talking again recently..are we done with the separation & runner-chaser bit or is that yet to come? Those years when we were not in touch, he's gone full steam on all the spiritual work, reiki, meditations etc.So does that mean he's already awakened. I have just about dipped my toes into meditation and energy cleansing. So what is to be expected ahead if we just want to be TFs without the physical union? Do we just work on ourselves and let things be. Its a little confusing for now.

[Ziusudra]

Precious
Step back from the situation and rest your emotions about the other man.

In the PLR, your current husband killed the other man. Forget about you in the situation and just ask yourself.
"What makes a man to kill his friend?"

Usually passion and love are the main reasons. - revenge for hurting his loved one, revenge for betraying his trust, Killing the spouse of his lover, etc, etc..
It tells me that something very dark was the cause.
In your case, it probably was a revenge of something because the other man did something horrible that hurt your current husband in the past life.

This dynamic is not about you at all, certainly nothing to do with TF theory. - so don't be dazzled by a romantic notion. - this is how karma pulls one into it.
Keep your eyes and mind wide open.
So, you do not hurt your current loved ones and yourself again.

The karma between the two men still persists. That is clear.
You are just a token to fulfill the karma
What role do you want to play?
The enabler or the fixer or the breaker?
Be careful what you wish for.
Will you let destiny play out?
Will you rise above your romantic notion and try to fight the destiny?

[LadyMay]

If you have to ask then probably not... sorry I know that's probably not what you want to hear. You can have intense soul connections without them being 'the one'. Whether the one exists I don't know but they can still be extremely special regardless.