Asking the universe

Noon84 · #1 09-06-2017, 05:11 AM

Hi

I was wondering have anyone ever tried to heal him/herself for many years and that one wish still did not come true?

I have tried to heal all my passt relationships and have been single for couple of years now.. i can not even remember how i was when I am in relationship. It is very weird feeling.. anyway i have asked the universe and ask god to be in a relationship that will end up woth marriage! But that seems tp be far beyond my power..

I wonder why this certain thing did not happen yet? Even though i have been asking for it since 2014! I feel lost .. i want to have my own family my own kids!

Antonio94 · #2 13-06-2017, 08:29 AM

Sorry to put this bluntly but personally I don't think the god can answer to your distress as long as you're in distress. My master once said the god exists, he gives people freedom to choose their lives, he wishes people to live in true happiness and reach the true knowledge. However, people often live in distress and lock their mind away, thus this blocks themselves from learning from god.
But in your case, I believe this answer doesn't necessary lie in god, in lies in your own confusion.

Noon84 · #3 13-06-2017, 07:16 PM

Then what should I do?

mihael_11 · #4 13-06-2017, 07:43 PM

Hello.

I know about it, yes. You wish and it doesn't happens.

I don't want to ask this but will do it anyway. Is it really you that wants this or you are projecting somebody, like friend?

Since you are directing your energy for so many time and it doesn't happens, is it really you?

If it is you, then there needs to be done some kind of rewiring, so you have many options to bypass this block, whit knowledge, development, experimenting around this area, topic.

What do you think, feel, is the reason?

Antonio94 · #5 14-06-2017, 10:00 AM

I believe the feeling of loneliness and wishing for soulmate is connected to our current life. So rather than giving an advice, I would like to make a question if I may.

In what kind of feeling makes you want to have family? Or rather, in what kind of situation makes you feel like you want to have family?

Normally there is no coincidence that those feelings arise. Normally there must be something happened in the past and we neglected it. And in the present, we started to feel something is missing in our life and the feeling of emptiness starts to arise.

Sorry I can't really know what's happening, but I think I can understand and feel the feeling of missing something important in our life. Hope this can help somehow.

Golden Eagle · #6 14-06-2017, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Noon84

Hi

I was wondering have anyone ever tried to heal him/herself for many years and that one wish still did not come true?

I have tried to heal all my passt relationships and have been single for couple of years now.. i can not even remember how i was when I am in relationship. It is very weird feeling.. anyway i have asked the universe and ask god to be in a relationship that will end up woth marriage! But that seems tp be far beyond my power..

I wonder why this certain thing did not happen yet? Even though i have been asking for it since 2014! I feel lost .. i want to have my own family my own kids!

4 years .... oh how little a time ~! I waited for 20 years ..... and would date no one UNTIL the Divine Answer began to GUIDE me directly ....... and then IT did! And whispered "You already know her" ..... ha , and i did! I asked "WHO!!!??" and that instant she messaged me ! My True Love came to me ~~! Still i doubted and asked for CLARITY and SIGNS ...... a Bald Eagle flew but 15 feet directly over my head in an area they have not been for 100 years! And so i asked her "Will you marry me?" and to my surprise though she was perplexed ..... she said "YES!!! YES!!! I will marry YOU !" Well , we have been engaged for over a year .... some things need be cleared before the time comes for us to be together.

USE your FREE time to work on self ....... to GROW in Awareness and Forgiving all the past and all others . See: A Course In Miracles , this will prepare you for the most unbelievable Experiences ~

and Miracles will become your way of Life ~

calla lily · #7 14-06-2017, 04:16 PM

I agree with Golden Eagle: Use your free time to work on yourself. Another thing you need to know when you make a prayer or ask God/Universe for anything is that you are not in control of when your wish will manifest. The Universe is. Just hold on to your dream. Don't discount it just because it didn't happen after x years.

If you've been wanting to heal your past relationships, you must first heal yourself. Then when you are ready, the Universe will bring you someone. This person might not be the person that you asked for, but this person will help you on the next phase of your soul development and will help you become the person you need to be to meet that person you've been waiting for and asked for. Of course, there may be more than one relationship until the Universe/your angels/God thinks you are ready to meet That Person.

Noon84 · #8 20-06-2017, 01:08 PM

Michael_11: its me, but sometimes I give up because this didnot happen yet, therefore, I donot want it with my standards i do not mind it with my friends standards. Sometimes I ask myself if it did not happen maybe it is not meant for me? Maybe i should lose hope? And little by litttle i convinced myself sometimes that i dont want it. I am stuck between i want and i dont want because it didnt happen even though its a YES universe

Noon84 · #9 20-06-2017, 01:11 PM

Golden_Eagle: 20 years!! Wow that is life itself! Why there are people do not wait that much?? When they want it just happens??

What is course in miracles ?

Noon84 · #10 20-06-2017, 01:14 PM

Calla.illy : the problem is that i healed myself from thecpast and i have no problem with it now! I even wish my ex's the best