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Old 16-02-2020, 04:12 PM
QueenCatherine QueenCatherine is offline
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I've been feeling resentful recently regarding "all of the things I do for us and our relationship." I try to pacify myself by recognizing all that he does for us and our relationship, but it doesn't neutralize my resentment. I also frequently feel like I am useless, worthless, and have nothing to offer. When I put these things side by side like this, the answer becomes clear. I need to change the way I'm looking at the situation. I live by a spiritual axiom that states that every time I am disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with me. The problem here has nothing to do with how much he or I do don't contribute to our partnership. The problem is that I don't value my contributions. So, I'm writing a list of all of the things I (feel resentful about) contribute, and I will see them as just that: contributions.

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Old 19-02-2020, 08:18 PM
Lorelyen
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You need to question your axiom. If you're doing your best, being your 'natural self' as best you can be - and someone fouls up in a way that disturbs you, how can it be something wrong with you? Just an example - you're enjoying your work and some other firm takes over, presenting you with a nasty colleague. How could the fallout be your fault? Nope. You start looking for another job. Another one: you have a friend but you and them start to diverge so that fulfilment is lost. We're dynamic. Unless we're very lucky it's difficult to grow in parallel with someone. There's nothing wrong with you. It's how it is.
It isn't that you don't contribute. If you genuinely try and it falls on stony ground, nothing can grow from it, so perhaps it's time to consider other things in your life.
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