Thought I'd share a bit.

[ArchIndigo]

I've been lurking these forums for a bit now; and it's taking me a while to build up the courage to post(due to negativity from others who are frustrated/don't understand or perhaps trolling); if you post something negative end it with a positive!

My twin flame journey is far from over and I know I'm no expert, just thought I'd make that very clear.

Aside from that here it goes:


I just wanted to reassure everyone on this journey; that you are not going crazy and I can assure you that your twin does love you(even if they don't show it). I have been guided by spirit to treat them as a gift and to let things flow in an authentic manner(don't script what your gonna say, or force anything).

I did however force myself to hide my sexual emotions/bodies(almost the entire time thus far).

Once my twin got to experience my real emotions/intentions things have taken an accelerated pace but a peaceful one.


Here's some food for thought for some of you:

What steps have you taken to bridge to your twin????

Are you making love to others as if they are your twin(Other than sexual)?
Are you remaining sexually inactive for them?
Are you building intimate and meaningful relationships with everyone around you, including your twin?
Are you looking from their perspective as well as yours?
Are you looking at the bigger picture(Nova-Earth/hEart ascension project)?
Are you showing your inner qualities to your twin?
Have you ever made your twin laugh?
Instead of being infatuated from a distance, ever approach?
Ever try to lucid dream with them and merge that with waking life?
If faith is trust and trust is faith; are you allowing these qualities to flourish in your twin?
Do you admire your twins inner qualities & have you ever engaged in their inner qualities?
Are you focused just on the physical parts of the connections or are you willing to go deeper? How deep have you gone?
***Do you ever do anything uplifting for your twin, from an indirect manner with no strings attached?***
(***Do you send your love telepathically constantly to strengthen the bond?***)

Have you ever thought of this from GOD'S perspective?
Aslong as I serve my twin; I serve god, Aslong as I serve god; I serve my twin. Aslong as their cups are full; I serve myself.

So, whats the point in over loving yourself to the point that you don't serve god or your twin. Seeing my twin laugh/smile completely overflows my cup to the point where I am satisfied.
(Which brings me back to the cup thing; are you licking the rims of other cups or are you only licking your twins cup?) --- insert funny rim pun here lol

I see a lot of people who try to make everything balanced in their life from the viewfinder of perfection.... This can bring all sorts of problems....
Would finding out your twin flame likes to party a little more than the average person bother you, or if they smoke marijuana or what if they have a porn addiction?

I love my twin regardless of their habits and I wouldn't force them to drop any habits to be with me.... Balance doesn't mean cleaning out everything you perceive as bad. Balancing your emotional states aswell as your actions towards all life that comes to you is the biggest thing that needs to be focused on for accelerated harmony/centering yourself...

For example, if you saw a caterpillar 100 meters away from a tree, would you help it half way up the trunk of the nearest tree or leave it to possibly get stepped on? Do you ever give change to those who need it, or do you spend more money on your addictions? Are you balancing your actions? I see alot of people who drive all the time but never walk, but expect people who walk to move out of the way; what about the bugs that get ran over; if u drive do you balance that out by putting bugs outside that are trapped in your house?

I can have a glass of wine every night after dinner because I enjoy wine and it makes me happy --- Goes good with cheese (balanced emotional state).

or

I can have a glass of wine every night before bed because my life frustrates me? (unbalanced emotional state).


If my twin wants to drink for fun, why not? If my twin drinks out of depression that's a different story.

Balancing out the emotional bodies/actions towards others will strengthen the connection, not balancing out material/meaningless pursuits.

Think radical and take radical steps for love!



For everyone who appreciates my post or if it helps!



Also REAL MEN CRY;)

[lyzth]

You have said it all. Thanks. Unless ... no wine. :-)

[Eonise22]

Lol the wine thing! My TF is a bartender and loves to drink for fun ( not because he's depressed ) .but he over does it tho. And drinks hard liquor almost every night of every other night . If alcohol had no bad health effects I'd be okay with it . But it does . :(but I love seeing him happy . Anyways . I love all your questions and they made me ponder a lot .its funny , the first question . My TF and I aren't committed . He has strong convictions about LDR and is still not awakened . But i bought myself a ring . Like a purity ring to repurify my self . I'm just gonna save myself for him . Although I do go on dates and would kiss sometimes . But that's as far . But even then , kissing other people who you know is just karmic , is soul draining. I have done lucid dreaming with him twice . But haven't merged it in reality because of the distance .i love his inner qualities . He's the epitome of Leo . And he has the wisdom and cleverness of Scorpio . I think , before , I was awakened . I did things that uplifted him . Like when he's going through a rough patch because of a break up , we would talk . And then he would say i would make him feel better magically . And I wasn't even doing anything . I was just talking to him . Also ,I feel like the reunion that happened to TFs this year , our reunion , spurred him to go through the journey of finding his through self . That is also why we separated this month . He said he wants to find himself . And he wants me to love myself and find myself . This TF journey has thought me so many things so far . It's amazing

[ArchIndigo]

Originally Posted by lyzth

You have said it all. Thanks. Unless ... no wine. :-)

Ooops forgot the point in purple;)

Your'e very welcome; sometimes I under estimate my intelligence, so thank you for your feedback:)
Tequila instead haha;)

enjoy the day!

[ArchIndigo]

Originally Posted by Eonise22

Lol the wine thing! My TF is a bartender...

But who would live longer; someone who is happy or someone who follows a strict diet?

Also true love never dies; and once we are all healed; alcohol would have no health affects....

If completely healthy trees can live for thousands of years, why not people?
I bought a necklace to signify my purity too; but it broke on me the other day lol.

I ponder all the time, part of my nature; also I forgot the point in purple.

My twin pushed me to take radical and creative steps; I keep forgetting how much my twin gets to see me flourish that I almost forget to take a step back and ponder things about myself.


Hope you enjoy the day!

[jro5139]

I am trying to build meaningful, loving and accepting relationships with everyone and including people I just meet in passing. However, many souls are caught up in their own drama or on their own vibe and no matter how much you smile at them or try to be nice they don't reflect it back and if you hang around people caught up in whatever matrix drama eventually you can get sucked into it yourself. Since I have experienced this vibrational change I am finding it more difficult to go into the general world and communicate with people. Particularly in a workplace, any workplace, which is filled with drama and competition, things I no longer wish to engage in.

This whole thing with my twin and the ascension has completely change my perceptions. I now look at many things and life in general completely different. When I look at it from his perception, I realized that I had a lot of expectations based on what I thought relationships were which caused me to form expectations based on things he said. I realized those expectations were unfair and that he is confused and trying to figure it all out also from a much less spiritual understanding than what I have.

I have shown my twin myself in all honesty without hiding anything. I love that I can completely be myself with him and he never judges me or treats me any differently no matter what I say to him. This is one of the qualities that made me fall in love with him. I have never lied to him. Before I met him I was in a very bad, abusive relationship and became very closed off to people so finding someone that I can be completely open with has changed me a lot. We make each other laugh and we get along amazingly.

I have not approached these topics with him yet as I have just been figuring a lot of it out myself and he is less spiritually awakened than I am. When I ended our period of no contact, I sent him a message and asked him if we could be friends again, that night I had a dream in which we went out and hung out together. It felt as if his soul came to visit me, and later found out that he had messaged me back yes (which I had not checked at that point). The soul in my dream was his and not mine and felt very much like him. I wish I could have another dream like that again with him. I have not said much to him about the spiritual stuff yet but in the last message I sent him I told him that we have a bond and that is why I don't want to lose him. I told him not to worry about responding to my message because he is going through so much right now and I just wanted to tell him what I felt. So I don't know what he thinks about me saying we have a bond...

My twin has a real problem with trust due to his abuse as a child...one of the reasons, according to him, THE reason we are not together. I would love if he would understand that he can trust me but I don't know if he will get to that point any time soon:(

When we first met, we were both really focused on the physical but now I realize it is much more and he has some serious blocks against true intimacy due to his past, again the reason it never got more physical.

I send him love all the time and wish I could talk to him more and miss him! I have always done little random things for him like bring him food, make him cupcakes for his birthday, brought him coffee, etc... He tells me it means a lot to him. He doesn't have drug or alcohol problems but he is very much caught up in the material world. Spending thousands of dollars on things trying to make himself happy and wondering why he is miserable (his words). I don't want to change him at all but he has a lot to learn about spiritual aspects of life and I would like to see him have self love and be able to accept love.

[hineahuone]

interesting questions, there is a lot to think about there. The main one I want to respond to is service. I do believe that there is a purpose why I have met my twin at this stage in my life. I have had a little bit more life experience than him and realise that this experience has shaped me into who I am now. I inspire others to make changes in their lives however small and people tell me this often and appreciate me for it. I think my twin has a similar energy to me and that as a couple we would be very powerful in influencing change in others and as lightworkers for the healing of the planet.

Right now we are in seperation and I have surrendered the relationship to God because my twin is currently battling his demons (alcohol and drugs). I could help him there on a physical level, but I do it at the ethereal level. I will not directly intervene because that would be rescuing and codependancy. I send him a message now and then to encourage him but he has to do the work himself.

[SomewhereInTime]

This is absolutely perfect!!!! I love it! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!

[ArchIndigo]

Originally Posted by SomewhereInTime

This is absolutely perfect!!!! I love it! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!

You are very welcome....
Was a bit reluctant because my train of thought is slighty off or odd always being mistreated as a result.... but now I know why!

Enjoy the day!

[ArchIndigo]

Also; to those who have a twin who is in a very negative circumstance such as drug addiction or homelessness etc....

Are you looking at it from the viewfinder of perfection, labels, karma or are you looking at their inner child who just wants love, to be healed, to be hugged, to laugh, romance, sex, etc...

If Jesus was here and his twin was a homeless drug addict; do you think he would spectate and just wait for his twin to clean out their karma and watch them rot.... Or would he nurture them back to full strength....

***TAKE RADICAL STEPS FOR LOVE***

For example; say you have a shopping addiction; what makes your addiction any different than drugs, sex, picking your nails, television or alcohol, nothing its just energy, just labels.

What about the chemtrails, fluoride, gmo foods.... I eat those things against my will; does it mean I associate with those labels, why put labels on your twin.

I spend $800 month of material meanwhile my twin is downtown homeless; I could have paid their rent or bought them food, etc.... Your twin sees you walking by with all your clothes; knows you love them but you spectate; they are gonna feel even more abandoned; especially since their parents probably abandoned them.

Look at same sex twins; are you gonna let labels of homosexuality, straight, bi, trans, etc stand in your way.

We are all being distracted with our own intents or society's.... Distract yourself with selfish self love or uplight your twin.

Why focus on the ailments or illness..... We all share the same illness; lack of love, the rest is just labels... Can we get past the labels already and truck forward.

Spiral into heavenly bliss or spiral into discordant chaos...