Why are cancer men so unstable?

[cdoliveira]

I am a leo. My partner is a cancer, we've been together for 8 months but he is just a emotional roller coaster. Get super crazy jealous all of a sudden when he was never like that before. Get all clingy and loving and then just distant and cold. Would blame on everybody else for his mistakes but himself.
Moody all the time for no apparent reason just cursing and hating every living being on planet earth.

Are all cancer men like this or just mine? How to cope with that? It is just driving me crazy I am seriously considering kicking his butt for good hahaha

[Dude]

Oh sorry but this made me laugh so much, hubby is a cancer. I could defo describe him as unstable lol.

I really have no advice though, we damned if we put a pillow over their face while they sleeping, we damned if we don't lol.

Seriously though, it depends what else is going on, it might not all be personality traits, he could be going through some stuff too. Talk to him and find out what's going on, tell him how his moods affect you. None of us are perfect and maybe his moods will always be an issue, so you need to either learn how to deal with those yourself and accept him for who he is... or walk away.

Have a chat first though, depending on situation maybe a trip do doctors might be an idea.

[Roses Are Red]

Sounds about right.. And they seem to be mamas boys..

[angelic star]

Mood swings so like a cancer guy sometimes lol. I still like Cancer though very home loving.

[lenvdb64]

You are dealing with a Watery energy. Water has no form (structure) of it's own.It holds the shape of the container it is poured into. The watery mind can be anywhere, and everywhere at the same time. It would be interesting to know what his rising sign is, and what the strongest energy element is. I am a fire sign with Aquarius ascendant (rising). My rising sign tends to stabilize me a great deal, but also provides structure. My Air element is very strong as I have many planets in Air signs.

A fixed rising sign does help to provide stability, and if anyone in the relationship has a fixed sun sign or rising sign it grounds the energies a bit. We often need someone in a relationship who can ground us and provide some form of stability.

Cancerians are nurturing, caring and home loving. But for a fire sign Cancerians can often put out ones fire and be rather overwhelming. Especially if your fire element is strong (you have many planets in fire signs). You will boil that water or that water will put your fire out. As a fire sign you could withstand if you yourself have a water rising sign, which makes you a bit more watery in your own energy.

[Clover]

Originally Posted by lenvdb64

You are dealing with a Watery energy. Water has no form (structure) of it's own.It holds the shape of the container it is poured into. The watery mind can be anywhere, and everywhere at the same time. It would be interesting to know what his rising sign is, and what the strongest energy element is. I am a fire sign with Aquarius ascendant (rising). My rising sign tends to stabilize me a great deal, but also provides structure. My Air element is very strong as I have many planets in Air signs.

A fixed rising sign does help to provide stability, and if anyone in the relationship has a fixed sun sign or rising sign it grounds the energies a bit. We often need someone in a relationship who can ground us and provide some form of stability.

Cancerians are nurturing, caring and home loving. But for a fire sign Cancerians can often put out ones fire and be rather overwhelming. Especially if your fire element is strong (you have many planets in fire signs). You will boil that water or that water will put your fire out. As a fire sign you could withstand if you yourself have a water rising sign, which makes you a bit more watery in your own energy.

Hi Lenvd

Lovely assessment and sounds very familiar with fire signs. Both my mother and sister were fire elements, I know all about this heat, Lol.


The full moon came through Cancer a few days ago, I hope you all had fun feeling that, woah! A little to intense for this earth sign.

[cdoliveira]

Originally Posted by lenvdb64

You are dealing with a Watery energy. Water has no form (structure) of it's own.It holds the shape of the container it is poured into. The watery mind can be anywhere, and everywhere at the same time. It would be interesting to know what his rising sign is, and what the strongest energy element is. I am a fire sign with Aquarius ascendant (rising). My rising sign tends to stabilize me a great deal, but also provides structure. My Air element is very strong as I have many planets in Air signs.

A fixed rising sign does help to provide stability, and if anyone in the relationship has a fixed sun sign or rising sign it grounds the energies a bit. We often need someone in a relationship who can ground us and provide some form of stability.

Cancerians are nurturing, caring and home loving. But for a fire sign Cancerians can often put out ones fire and be rather overwhelming. Especially if your fire element is strong (you have many planets in fire signs). You will boil that water or that water will put your fire out. As a fire sign you could withstand if you yourself have a water rising sign, which makes you a bit more watery in your own energy.

Hi lenvdb64 I've got SUN AND MOON in leo and rising in aries! FIRE FIRE FIRE
And absolutely NONE water sign in my astral map WHATSOEVER

That explains why he drives me crazy

[rainbow.sprinkles]

my boyfriend is a cancer too and boy, you've described him to a T!

that said, he also has borderline personality disorder. haha.

[angelic star]

I personally like to believe all elements can get along with all elements you know. Nice about fire and water working together to make steam. I think instead of only focusing on the shadow areas, we could also be moving past the shadows into more light and how to make it work for us. Astrology is just a tool that gives us insight, we can move past it.
It is definitely interesting however. I love working with element water, how it nourishes the earth and cycle back over and over again into earth's atmosphere. Without air we wouldnt be having the space to create all of the amazing mechanisms of nature. We wouldnt be able to light fire without air, and without fire we wouldnt be able to destroy only to create again.
I think earth and water can nourish each other. Earth will take in the water and water will take the shape of earth and nourish it. Water can flow, but you have to break earth to fit it somewhere and that can be extremely hard. Like masculine femine nature. they can however both work extremely well I believe and so can other elements.
I do not have strong fire elements in my chart but I get along so well with Leo and Aries . I think if we try to overcome our shadows and become more liberal we find the same diversity within ourselves. We are all one, separation is just illusion.

[cdoliveira]

Originally Posted by rainbow.sprinkles

my boyfriend is a cancer too and boy, you've described him to a T!

that said, he also has borderline personality disorder. haha.

Glad to know I am not crazy
I knew someone would understand how I feel hahaha