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Old 10-09-2018, 06:28 PM
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Blessings to your wife's Soul, marcel. I cannot imagine what you all must have gone through, but your dear wife is free now.
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Old 10-09-2018, 07:11 PM
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Thanks Amanaki and Tobi
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Old 10-09-2018, 08:42 PM
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I haven't read the entire thread but to answer the original question: Suicide is neither selfish nor cowardly. It takes incredible strength and is probably the most horrible decision one has to make.
My wife commited suicide two years ago. She was ill for 4 years, fought with everything she had but even close to 30 doctors of all kinds of fields couldn't help her or even tell her what exactly the problem was. She was in intense pain most of the time, some days couldn't do anything on her own. I had to quit my job to stay home full time.
When she was 13 years old she had to see her mother fade away slowly and painfully from MS. She never wanted to end that way, helpless, depending on other people's decisions, and when she was close to becoming a complete nursing case herself, she couldn't take it anymore.
I talked her out of it many times but in the end I had to let her go. She never would have left me and her daugther behind if there would have been the slightest bit of hope, but after 4 years of struggle while everything went downhill further she made the hardest decision of her life.
Some things surrounding her death made me realize that there is more to the world than modern science can explain and and opened my mind even further to spirituality.
It was and is hard on me and my daugther but as we both witnessed her suffering for years, none of us would ever blame her for what she did. Her family and friends, to whom she always put up a brave face, blame us for letting this happen though.



Your Wife was a very brave Lady, you are not to blame in any shape or form. She felt that she couldn't take anymore after trying for so long to endure her suffering, there is only so much a person can take, we are not made of stone.

Life can be so hard and seemingly cruel for some, you must be devastated and heartless people blaming you must make it even worse, they have no right to judge without walking in her/your shoe's. She was loved and cherished by yourself and her Daughter and that should be enough for the ' Judges ' to know.

She is out of pain and suffering no more, keep that in mind when your feeling down,
May she rest in peace and I hope you and your Daughter find peace in your lives.
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Old 11-09-2018, 10:18 AM
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Your post is so nice an kind sky123, others 2. And sorry Marcel..

There was only one person iv known who commited suicide, he was a person who was a bit older then me an my friends when we were teenagers. Most people respected an feared him because he was so mean mostly to those younger then him, but one day he just hung himself, it was surprising.
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