I need help to heal someone

[Gem]

Originally Posted by Tomodachi

Thank you for all the care and comments, my mother is 60 and this initial change was triggered when my father had a heart attack. From that point on she treats both me and my father as if we are against her. She has been to the doctors a lot and has been on many different medications, yet nothing seems to help. Due to some unknown reason, her psychologist and therapist will not talk to anyone besides her, so they aren't getting other peoples stories and points of view of the situation. Lately she is canceling her own appointments without our knowing. The only reason I brought this up is because practical medicine and family intervention has otherwise been a total failure, if not fuel for her unstable emotions. Thank you for all the help and healing thoughts and again, I hope it has some effect.

The therapists have to maintain confidentiality and won't talk to anyone without their client's permission, and that's important because it creates a safe place of trust, so if your mother thinks you are against her, it's unlikely she'd consent. It's actually for her best interest. If you are available to support her, that's good, but it doesn;t necessarily mean there's anything you can do... so I guess it's quite a powerless situation, but you are there and that's huge.