Divinely Ordained?

I've spoken to a spiritual advisor concerning my TF and i. She helped me on understand the steps I need to take inorder to reach my higher self and explained a lot of the dance that he and I have have.
During one conversation she was explaining something to me about the connection and she stated that he is "Divinely Ordained"to be in my life.

Do you believe this means that he WAS ordained to come into my life or could she have meant that we are destined to be together once we've progressed in our spiritual growth?

I should had that his mother (whose passed) came to me twice in a dream (never met her) and told me I'm the woman for him and I'm the woman that gonna be in his life

Could in his life possibly mean long term friends? Just would like some interpretations from others

Thank You