Twinsoul/unrequited love

Thank you all.

I don't know. He said clearly that he 'never had romantic attraction' to me. I don't understand if this is unrequited love why does he always in my mind 24/7.


I didn't tell him i love him, i told him i wanna take this 'friendship' further. he said the above.

In between my confusion i wish this is unrequited love, but it wasn't easy, now i think it's impossible' to get him off of my mind. Unrequited love is easy, but if this is TS, i need some validation of his feelings so that this is at the very least bearable... :(

Hello Vanessatrine

If this man has connected to you on more than a physical and mental level and has helped guide you back to yourself then that is an act of the most amazing love and kindness you can have.

[Sojourner2013]

I hear your pain. I would suggest a simple visualization: Imagine him standing before you, and what ever color you visualize him as surrounding his body. Then imagine yourself standing with him, with whatever color you visualize for yourself and surround it around your body. Face each other, take hands and visualize your bodie becoming columns of the colors. Twist these colors together like a rope twists until the ropes becomes one tight rope. Now take the top of that rope and send it into your heart and let the rope swirl and blend into your heart.
This short visualization is meant to help you conjoin your spirits as one into your heart so that you can move on with out the feeling of separateness that pains you. I hope this helps. Best wishes!

[Impulsv]

My tf has said that too but he too could not let me go. In beginning despite saying no interest romantically I felt him interested but hiding it. 2.5 years still says the same but know he has caring feelings I guess I must accept what is someone can care got u but not romantically I guess. He question a himself why he does not but i know fear holds him back

[diamonds]

Originally Posted by vanessatrine

Thank you all.

I don't know. He said clearly that he 'never had romantic attraction' to me. I don't understand if this is unrequited love why does he always in my mind 24/7.


I didn't tell him i love him, i told him i wanna take this 'friendship' further. he said the above.

In between my confusion i wish this is unrequited love, but it wasn't easy, now i think it's impossible' to get him off of my mind. Unrequited love is easy, but if this is TS, i need some validation of his feelings so that this is at the very least bearable... :(

Hi, I just want to write that I had the same experience in 2007, I loved somebody he didn't love me back. But I was 24/7 thinking of him and every night I was seeing him in my dreams, I was trying to forget about him but because of the fact that I see him in my dreams I was unable to do so. Then last year I was introduced to twin flame experience. And I can guarantee it has nothing to do with ordinary unrequited love. This time You don't feel that you are separate. So if he's not your TF don't worry, and look at his eyes when he says he doesn't love you, eyes don't lie.