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Originally Posted by Starbuck
I knew intutively I shouldn't have married him, but I had no confidence then and I was seeking security outside myself.
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Yes, I can totally relate to this Starbuck!
I am also going through divorce right now, and even though I consider things to be progressing "well", it's still not an easy time at all. Somehow though, I have managed to take a step back from the proceedings, and it almost feels like it's happening to someone else, lol. Something like this would certainly have floored me a year or two ago, but I now have so much more inner strength to do what I felt was the right thing for a long, long time now.
Why do we stay for so long in relationships that are ultimately wrong for us? For learning/experience/growth, IMO. There should be no regrets - although that can be a hard thing to accept sometimes.
I have faith that everything is progressing exactly as it should be, and I try to use every experience as a lesson to be learned.