My BIGGEST Twin Flame Lesson so far

[Eternal Flame]

This thread is one of the more authentic Twin Flame threads. Lessons, inner reflection, and acknowledging the joy of the soul connection.

So many people in this community project concepts onto their karmic relationships and play pretend Twin Flame.

This thread rings true and real.

I think at the end of the day, whatever relationship we have, we should strive to be better people.

It's not about winning a relationship prize and living happily ever after.

[HannibalLovesYou]

Originally Posted by Eternal Flame

This thread is one of the more authentic Twin Flame threads. Lessons, inner reflection, and acknowledging the joy of the soul connection.

So many people in this community project concepts onto their karmic relationships and play pretend Twin Flame.

This thread rings true and real.

I think at the end of the day, whatever relationship we have, we should strive to be better people.

It's not about winning a relationship prize and living happily ever after.

Thank you so much for this message.

I should say though that as much as I have taken on this view of the rain flame relationship now, it wasn't always like this.

When I first met my twin flame I was a mess. I was best friends with a narcissist for five years at that point and my self worth was shattered.

The happiness I felt from my twin made me want to cling onto him for dear life. Shortly after this I got into a massive fight with my narcissistic Bestie. We always fought but this time we split for good.

Through this journey my twin flame and I would get close and then drift apart continuously, and it drove me crazy.

There were times I wished never met because I saw him as emotionally unavailable and I thought he never cared.

My therapist however assisted me with shadow work through this time and I started to see that the problem wasn't just with my twin flame, nor was it just with myself. It was both of us. I realized that I focused on his pain so much because I ignored my own pain throughout my entire 25 years on this planet.

He's one of my best friends, although we're not close to the union stage at the moment. Still a lot of work to do.

We talk occasionally and the love is always there, though I would be lying if I said I never get negative feelings now and again. One thing I can certainly say though is that I understand them now.

[Kalika]

Originally Posted by Eternal Flame

This thread is one of the more authentic Twin Flame threads. Lessons, inner reflection, and acknowledging the joy of the soul connection.

So many people in this community project concepts onto their karmic relationships and play pretend Twin Flame.

This thread rings true and real.

I think at the end of the day, whatever relationship we have, we should strive to be better people.

It's not about winning a relationship prize and living happily ever after.

Without a doubt. This has been the most painful and liberating experience of my life! And I wouldn't change a thing given what I now know. And yes, a better version of myself. I have no clue what TF is doing. But what is ironic is that I feel it is none of my business.

The Universe will guide us should our paths meet again. Another thing I learnt is that I have no control over others Thus, it is all out of my hands anyway.