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Old 03-01-2017, 05:44 PM
light-seer light-seer is offline
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I am 21 and have been single all my life too but there are several factors for this as I have social anxiety


I can relate, as I also struggle with social anxiety.

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I've recently decided, along with my spiritual path, to put relationships to the side as I don't want girlfriends but rather just find my twin flame who will love me unconditionally, but that kind of person are very rare in my experience so basically I'll just carry on and not care tbh :')

Well said. Thank you for your advice.
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Old 03-01-2017, 06:43 PM
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I've recently decided, along with my spiritual path, to put relationships to the side as I don't want girlfriends but rather just find my twin flame who will love me unconditionally, but that kind of person are very rare in my experience so basically I'll just carry on and not care tbh :')
Rare but not rare. Rare if you are desperate. Who after all wants to be with someone who is desperate? Others are better off alone than with someone so needy. So don't expect people to be breaking your door down. But by letting go and putting relationships to the side, you show the world you are not a desperate person. And you know what will happen? The world will come calling, because we're all attracted to the best in one another.

It's a life secret, sshh!
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Old 03-01-2017, 07:16 PM
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Rare but not rare. Rare if you are desperate. Who after all wants to be with someone who is desperate? Others are better off alone than with someone so needy. So don't expect people to be breaking your door down. But by letting go and putting relationships to the side, you show the world you are not a desperate person. And you know what will happen? The world will come calling, because we're all attracted to the best in one another.

It's a life secret, sshh!
Well put! ^_^
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Old 04-01-2017, 12:59 AM
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that's not something you should feel bad about... it's just how it is, that's your situation right now, accepting your situation is always a healthy thing. don't rush it because it will CERTAINLY come, and then you'll enjoy it even more than others 'cuz you aren't used to it.
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Old 04-01-2017, 01:17 AM
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You've got to put yourself out there and take a few chances. If you don't gamble you won't win.
To all of the people waiting for the perfect match, forget it, there's no perfect people out there.
We've all had to do a bit of Dragon slaying, you've got to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
The other thing is to toughen up a bit, playing this game means learning to deal with rejection.
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Old 05-01-2017, 10:45 PM
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Dont wait! Youve gotta have the guts to change! Im the same way. If u wait for the 'right person' itll feel too awkward to do anything about it and youll miss the chance.

The best quote ive ever heard:
"Be more confident by not giving a crock what others think of u"

Just get out there. Go to a bar by yerself if u have to. Guaranteed a girl will 'check u out'
Join a one-time fitness/art/sport class/event.

Going places without friends is true confidence in yourself. And im sure weve all heard "confidence is key in any relationship"
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Old 21-02-2017, 09:41 AM
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You are still young, just relax, let yourself to get to know more people and things will start to happen.
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