I feel terrible about this

[Baile]

Here are a few personal epiphanies that have helped me:

Let go of beliefs, they lock you into... needing to believe of course.
It's this "needing to believe" that causes our self-inflicted inner turmoil.
Feel terrible about terrible things you actually did; that's appropriate.
Don't feel terrible about things you "think you need to believe."
And any "friend" who gets angry at you, for being you, isn't a friend.

[Really!]

Originally Posted by Baile

Here are a few personal epiphanies that have helped me:

Let go of beliefs, they lock you into... needing to believe of course.
It's this "needing to believe" that causes our self-inflicted inner turmoil.
Feel terrible about terrible things you actually did; that's appropriate.
Don't feel terrible about things you "think you need to believe."
And any "friend" who gets angry at you, for being you, isn't a friend.

What type of work is involved in getting to those epiphanies?
We all know proverbs don't instantly change the turmoil & suffering of a life impacting event ...
I think most people want to know how to heal, & not hear what sounds like platitudes at a time of suffering ...
Simply asking about your experiences ...

[Baile]

Originally Posted by Really!

What type of work is involved in getting to those epiphanies?

Life experience coupled with lots of self-observation. :)

"I have an extremely strong connection to several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel so guilty, so terrible."
"I have an extremely strong connection to several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel so wonderful, so blessed."

The way in which we view a particular reality or situation, comes down to belief.
Let go of your beliefs, and you change how you view and approach the situation.
Is it healing that's required here, or merely self-understanding and acceptance?
We are who we are. Love that and live it to the fullest.

[FallingLeaves]

Originally Posted by Baile

"I have an extremely strong connection to several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel so guilty, so terrible."
"I have an extremely strong connection to several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel so wonderful, so blessed."

I have always wondered, WHY should I choose one of these over the other?

[Baile]

Originally Posted by FallingLeaves

I have always wondered, WHY should I choose one of these over the other?

In my case, for my sanity. :) What you do is your choice of course.

[Really!]

Originally Posted by Baile

Life experience coupled with lots of self-observation. :)

"I have an extremely strong connection to several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel so guilty, so terrible."
"I have an extremely strong connection to several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel so wonderful, so blessed."

The way in which we view a particular reality or situation, comes down to belief.
Let go of your beliefs, and you change how you view and approach the situation.
Is it healing that's required here, or merely self-understanding and acceptance?
We are who we are. Love that and live it to the fullest.

Affirmations are helpful, but most importantly, what do you do to relieve the emotions felt during the process?

[keokutah]

Originally Posted by PrincessSerena

I don't know why it is but I feel like I have several soulmates/Twin Flames. I feel an extremely strong connection to someone and then I see someone else and feel the same way and I feel so guilty. My friend even got angry at me for it because of how inconsistent I feel. Have any of you experienced this? What can I do?

I've never experienced it myself, but I know many people from the world of sex addiction, who have a similar problem called Love Addiction, but instead of getting addicted to the sex, they are prone to quick and unhealthy infatuation with people and truly think they have fallen in love with almost everyone they meet. You might have a milder form of it.

Not to say that some people don't have many soul mates, but it's probably more likely that you are just becoming infatuated with people and it's not real love.